You’ve probably seen the various “rules” out there that attempt to cleverly use numbers to describe what you should or shouldn’t do in a relationship or when dating. Having rules and guidelines to follow to lead you to a desired outcome can be helpful and even comforting. Like the 2-2-2 one that suggests that couples should go on a date once every two weeks, spend a weekend away every two months and take a week-long vacation every two years. Others are just plain awful. There's the 6-6-6-6 rule that women with "high standards" should only look for men who are 6 feet tall, with a 6 inch 🍆, six figure salary and a six-pack! In this episode we take an informative and humorous look at these relationship rules, debunk the myths and as always provide expert solid advice on what things you might want to consider to have secure, successful and sexy polyamorous relationships! There's even some food talk in there to keep you entertained with references to yams, sausages and oysters! We would love to hear your take on these numerical rules, what your favorites were and any that we missed (good advice or otherwise). If you’re listening on Spotify you can now add comments to each episode! We want to continue to keep this podcast free and reach as many people as possible so it would help us a lot of you hit the like button, subscribe, share with your friends and write a review! Show references: Let's Talk Polyamory Online Dating Guide - https://go.letstalkpolyamory.com/onlinedatingguide Poly Newbies Digital Course - https://courses.letstalkpolyamory.com/polynewbiesspecialoffer New Relationship Energy: The Awesome and the Awful - Season 1, Episode 21 - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6IbCK3XZ1louXULbFvAwyR?si=2DxjYeOaRQmep_H8wr8ZFA Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy - https://www.weekofvisibility.com/ 8 Rules of Love by Jay Shetty - https://8rulesoflove.com/ The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right by Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider. Originally published in 1995 and they’ve followed up with several books on this. https://therulesbook.com/ Taryn Newton-Gill, Dating and Attachment Coach of Truer Love - https://www.truerlove.com/love-coaching