While we all know that open and honest communication is the key to relationships success, a recent University of California study found that there’s plenty of people would rather not know certain details about what their partner is up to! This is one of the big questions that people often struggle with, and are often at odds with, in non-monogamous relationships.  Some prefer the DADT - don’t ask, don’t tell - model where everything is unsaid. It’s a … I’d rather not know because what I don’t know won’t hurt me? However, as we said to a coaching client recently and talk about in this episode, when we avoid hearing from our partners about their experiences completely, our brains “fill in the blanks” and that story is often much worse than knowing the truth. There's others that LOVE to share all the details about their encounters with others and those that want to hear everything, but there's the matter of privacy of others to consider. And some people are ok with some details but want certain things left out.  We cover all these things and more in this exciting episode - How Much Do I Want To Know: From DADT to ALL the Juicy Details! And if you're newly navigating non-monogamy or facing some bumpy territory, we've got you! Our Poly Newbies Digital Course https://courses.letstalkpolyamory.com/polynewbiesspecialoffer - has a proven system that will provide you with a foundation for success! AND is now at a special price for our followers and our online community! Other Show References: Open Relationship and Polyamory Mastery - our deeper dive program which includes coaching from us. New cohort starting October 2024! https://go.taraandandre.com/polyamorymastery  Book an Introductory Pay What You Can Coaching Call with Tara - https://go.taraandandre.com/pwyccoachingsession Let’s Talk Polyamory Facebook Group & Community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/letstalkpoly  Find out more about us and services, programs and how to get awesome free resources at ⁠https://taraandandre.com/ ⁠