Episodes
In this empowering episode, join us as we hear about Khadija's inspiring journey of transformation. Khadija opens up about her life before Boston University, where she navigated the challenges of divorce and a profound sense of loss and stress. Through her commitment and investment in herself, Khadija discovered a path to true self-worth and confidence. She shares how participating in the transformative Bosti program allowed her to shed fear and embrace love, ultimately leading to a profound...
Published 04/16/24
In this episode, we meet Maria Castillon, a successful entrepreneur whose journey from Mexico to Silicon Valley led her to helm a multimillion-dollar furniture company. Despite professional achievements, Maria felt a personal void and turned to self-care and personal development. Joining Shay's Boss Diva program was pivotal for Maria. Guided by mentorship and tools like meditation and coaching, Maria regained clarity and confidence. As she healed personally, her business thrived, expanding...
Published 04/09/24
Explore the fascinating world of dating and attraction through this insightful presentation. Discover the intricate biochemical responses that drive romantic connections, with a focus on triggering vasopressin in men and managing oxytocin in women for lasting relationships. Learn why rushing physical intimacy can hinder long-term bonding and the importance of allowing time for a genuine connection to flourish. Gain valuable insights into power dynamics within relationships and empower...
Published 04/02/24
Unlock the secrets of love, dating, and relationships in today's powerful episode. Join us as we debunk myths and explore the true dynamics at play. From understanding masculine and feminine energies to navigating the courting phase, this episode is packed with insights. Don't miss out!
Published 03/26/24
In this episode, we're diving into feminine energy, intuition, and seduction. I'm speaking directly to women who've faced betrayal in relationships, stressing the need to trust their intuition and feminine power. I begin by acknowledging women's innate ability to sense relationship issues, emphasizing the strength of feminine intuition. I discuss how societal pressures lead women to ignore red flags, disconnecting from their authentic selves. Exploring feminine energy, I explain its...
Published 03/19/24
Hey there, beautiful Diva! Welcome to another insightful episode where we'll dive deep into the fascinating world of dating and relationships. Today, I want to share some invaluable nuggets of wisdom that will help you navigate the twists and turns of the romantic journey. Let's start by unpacking some intriguing concepts, shall we? Ever heard of the "Pull Away Phase" or the "Coolidge Effect"? Well, buckle up, because we're going to explore why men sometimes seem to lose interest out of the...
Published 03/12/24
Welcome to Love on Command podcast, where we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, dating dynamics, and self-love. As a certified Love Transformer and one of the top love coaches in the world, I bring you raw, unfiltered truths about love, dating, and femininity. Join me as I share insights, advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the intricate world of love and relationships. From understanding the pull-away phase to mastering the art of seduction, we cover it all....
Published 03/05/24
In today's episode, we explore the intricate link between mental and physical well-being. I propose that a significant portion of weight gain is linked to inflammation, often stemming from past traumas and negative relationships. It's crucial to address these emotional wounds and boost self-worth for overall health and fulfilling relationships. Through personal anecdotes and client interactions, I highlight the transformative power of healing emotional scars on all aspects of life. Let's...
Published 02/27/24
In this thought-provoking podcast, join us as we delve into the profound influence of feminine energy and sexual power. From the societal shifts in masculinity to the ancient wisdom of feminine seduction, we explore how women's innate power has been historically marginalized and how reclaiming it can lead to profound personal transformation. Learn how to harness your sexual energy for manifestation, heal past traumas, and step into your true worthiness. Tune in for enlightening discussions...
Published 02/20/24
Welcome to today's episode where we delve into the intricacies of attracting a deeply fulfilling relationship with a compatible partner. As your guide, I emphasize the crucial role of embracing truth and readiness for transformative change to enhance your journey towards finding love. We explore the common challenges confronted by women, particularly those over 40, shedding light on tendencies towards excessive independence, operating predominantly in masculine energy, and the lingering...
Published 02/13/24
Welcome to the podcast where we break down the intricacies of modern dating and relationships. Join us as we dive deep into the phases of relationships, from attraction to commitment, and learn how to navigate the complexities of love in today's world. In this episode, we explore the five phases of a relationship and delve into the biochemical reactions that drive attraction. From understanding the power of sexual energy to recognizing the importance of the pull-away phase, we uncover the...
Published 02/06/24
Join me, Shay, the love expert, as we unravel the mysteries of successful dating in this episode. We tackle the controversial issue of men expecting women to go 50/50 on dates, diving deep into the underlying reasons for such expectations. Discover the importance of treating dating as an interview process, learn to identify red flags, and explore a proven formula for attracting high-quality men. Drawing from 20 years of documented success and a unique dating experiment, I provide insights and...
Published 01/30/24
In this powerful podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey, unlocking the secrets of love with Shay, Your Love Diva. Learn the crucial principles for attracting the right man and establishing a lasting relationship. Explore the significance of polarity, pitfalls of dating in masculine energy, and the surprising impact of dinner on long-term commitment. Tune in to elevate your love game and embrace the truth – you are always the prize.
Published 01/23/24
Join our empowering podcast episode as we dive deep into breaking through love blocks and transforming your life. In this soul-stirring discussion, we confront common beliefs and fears that hinder your ability to attract and sustain the love you deserve. From debunking the notion of being cursed to unraveling the fear of abandonment, we provide insights that empower you to embrace the magic of love in your life. Discover the profound impact of subconscious beliefs on your relationships and...
Published 01/16/24
Unlock the secrets of dating and relationships in this eye-opening podcast episode. Join us as we delve into the biological intricacies of attraction, understanding the hormones like vasopressin and dopamine that play a pivotal role. Learn why the way you start a relationship matters and discover the science-backed strategies to build lasting connections. Don't miss out on the essential insights for navigating the world of dating with confidence and authenticity. Tune in now!
Published 01/09/24
Join me in this journey. Let's uncover the complexities, empower ourselves, and learn to navigate the dating landscape with newfound awareness and resilience. This episode is your beacon toward reclaiming control, understanding, and embracing your strength in the world of relationships.
Published 01/02/24
In today's episode, I delve deep into my personal journey – from a place of despair and financial struggle to finding abundance and purpose. I share the pivotal moments that shifted my perspective, the power of investing in oneself, and how aligning with abundance transforms not just your financial state, but your entire life. Join me as I uncover the keys to manifesting wealth and purposeful living.
Published 12/26/23
Join us as we delve into the secrets of seduction and uncover the real essence of lasting connections. Discover how to elevate your dating game and cultivate healthy, meaningful relationships. Learn the power of attraction, the phases of courtship, and the profound impact of energy control. Uncover the truths about intimacy, hormonal health, and the pursuit of genuine, lasting love. This episode is packed with insights to transform your approach to relationships and empower your journey...
Published 12/19/23
In this episode, we delve into the complexities of love blocks, uncovering how they can obstruct the path to genuine love. Join us as we identify these barriers and dismantle them, paving the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
Published 12/12/23
Join us on the Love on Command podcast for an inspiring journey with Sheema, a phenomenal boss diva. She shares her transformation from attracting the wrong partners to manifesting her dream life and career success. From dealing with love blocks to embracing self-worth, her story empowers anyone seeking love and self-growth.
Published 12/05/23
Embark on a transformative journey with Brenda Hall as she shares her empowering story on our podcast. From battling anxiety and depression despite external success to finding healing through Boss Diva's program, Brenda's narrative dives into the complexities of inner fulfillment. Her journey underscores the power of investing in oneself, overcoming deep-seated patterns, and prioritizing mental health for true abundance. Join us as Brenda inspires with her shift from emotional distress to...
Published 11/28/23
In this episode, the dating landscape gets a major makeover. Discover the secrets behind dating multiple people simultaneously, why first-date dinners are a thing of the past, and how to elevate your allure through strategic, seductive dating tactics. Welcome to a paradigm shift in finding love.
Published 11/21/23
In today's podcast, I'm diving deep into the complexities of modern dating with the amazing Alison Wellington, a certified dating and relationship coach. We get real about the impact of social media, how gender roles are evolving, and the unique challenges of online dating. Alison shares her personal journey, highlighting the significance of self-reflection and accountability in building fulfilling relationships. The bottom line: while technology expands our dating options, finding true love...
Published 11/14/23
In this episode, we delve into the scientific aspects of dating and love. We discuss the common misconceptions surrounding dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of dating with intention and common sense. The episode highlights the value of dating multiple people and the need to avoid emotional blindfolds. We also explore the biochemical processes that occur in both men and women during the courting phase, shedding light on why it's essential to let a man work to earn your...
Published 11/07/23
In this episode we discuss how the quality of a relationship is determined by the version of oneself that enters into it.
Published 10/31/23