In this episode, we're diving into the dynamics of attraction and the science behind why some women find themselves in unfulfilling relationships. Join me as I share personal experiences and insights, revealing how understanding male psychology can empower you to attract the right partner. Discover the essential rules of the game, learn how to shift your energy, and understand the types of men to look out for. Get ready to take control of your love life!

Welcome to Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into the intricate dance of love, relationships, and self-discovery. In this episode, I unpack the essential steps you must take before jumping back into dating—because if you're still healing from heartbreak, battling insecurities, or facing financial challenges, it’s time to pause and prioritize your healing journey. Join me as I share insights on the importance of recognizing your love blocks, understanding the different faces of a...

Do you really know who you're dating? In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology behind men's behavior and uncover the 3 faces every man has: public, private, and secret. I break down why rushing into a relationship or marriage too quickly can prevent you from truly getting to know who you're with. Learn the importance of taking your time, vetting his character, values, and intentions to avoid toxic relationships and heartbreak. We also discuss how unhealed love blocks may cause you...

Ready to stay single forever? In this playful yet insightful episode, I'm flipping the script to reveal 10 surefire ways to keep attracting toxic relationships and living a life of mediocrity. Using a little reverse psychology, I’ll show you how the mind resists change and how you can use that to your advantage. From dating the wrong types to staying stuck in old patterns, we’re diving deep into the self-sabotaging behaviors that keep you from the healthy love you deserve. So, do I have...

Did you know that female eagles put their potential mates through a series of challenges to prove they’re worthy partners? In this episode, I dive into the fascinating world of eagle mating rituals and uncover what they can teach us about modern dating. Why are so many women still trying to qualify themselves for men who haven’t earned their place in their lives? It’s time to shift the narrative, ladies. Stop settling and start raising your standards. Learn how to embody the strength of an...

Ever wondered why some relationships thrive while others falter? In this compelling session, I’ll break down the biochemical and psychological factors that drive romantic connections. Discover how understanding your own and your partner's hormones, like vasopressin, can empower you to attract the love you desire. With over 180,000 women transformed through my unique approach, I’ve turned heartbreak into happy endings, offering insights from my personal journey of overcoming adversity to...

Are men truly wired for monogamy? In this episode, we delve into the biological and biochemical factors that influence a man's commitment. From the surge of testosterone to the vital role of vasopressin and dopamine, we break down how science drives male bonding and the instincts behind monogamy. Join us as we uncover the signs of a man who’s genuinely committed versus one who's just playing games. This episode offers empowering insights for women navigating relationships, highlighting the...

In this episode, we dive deep into the "Pull Away Phase" in relationships, often referred to as the "Rubber Band Phase," as explained by Dr. John Gray in his book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. This phase can be confusing and frustrating, but understanding it can significantly affect how you handle it. We explore: The biochemical reasons behind why men pull away. How this phase typically occurs around 2.5 to 3 months into the relationship. The importance of confidence and...

Hey there, beautiful Divas! Join me on a fabulous wine tour in Cape Town with our charming guide, Gray, as we sip and chat about the ins and outs of love, dating, and relationships.  In this episode, we dive into the heart of South African romance, exploring everything from the traditional Lobola (bride price) to the modern dynamics of dating. Gray shares his unique insights on how men choose their partners, what makes someone "marriage material," and the cultural nuances that shape...

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the intriguing science behind first dates and why a dinner date might be the worst choice if you're looking for a long-term relationship. We explore how the dinner date can inadvertently sabotage your chances of finding a committed partner by focusing on curiosity, anticipation, and polarity. Learn why setting boundaries and making strategic choices about your time can significantly impact how a potential partner perceives you. From the animal kingdom...

Join me as we dive deep into why some women find themselves doing it all in relationships, only to get minimal effort in return. We’ll uncover the science behind true emotional connection and how biochemical responses play a role in commitment. Learn the secrets to distinguishing between genuine affection and mere manipulation. Plus, I’ll reveal why it’s crucial to set high standards and truly vet potential partners. Tune in for insights that could transform your approach to love and...

Welcome to The Love on Command podcast, where we decode the mysteries of relationships with sass and wisdom! Join me as I spill the tea on navigating love phases, dodging red flags, and reclaiming your power. From attracting quality partners to avoiding heartbreaks, we're diving deep into what makes love work. Get ready to laugh, learn, and boss up in your dating life with me, your host, delivering truth bombs straight to your earbuds!

Welcome to this episode where we explore the intriguing dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships, all through the lens of biology. Drawing from my experience in science and pharmaceutical sales, we'll uncover how a man's behavior directly impacts his biochemistry, influencing everything from testosterone levels to stress responses. I'll highlight why embracing masculine energy is crucial for fostering healthy connections, and we'll dissect the consequences of feminizing...

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into understanding and overcoming love blocks to attract the relationships you truly deserve. Join us as we explore powerful strategies, insights, and stories from over 20 years of experience, helping women heal, activate their feminine energy, and become an irresistible magnet for love. Get ready to transform your love life and unlock the secrets to attracting the partner who is perfect for you. Tune in, and let's start your journey...

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we delve into relationships, exploring how masculine and feminine energies influence dating and attraction. Discover why being in your masculine energy might hinder finding the right partner. We'll decode the science—from biochemistry to subconscious patterns—shedding light on why some effortlessly attract great relationships while others struggle. Join us for strategies to heal past wounds and embrace your authentic feminine energy. Whether...

In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of love on our lives, emphasizing its status as a vital human need rather than a mere want. We explore how love, beyond emotional desire, becomes a core element of our existence, influencing us on both biological and spiritual levels. Through personal stories and insightful revelations, we challenge the common dismissal of love, advocating for its transformative power. We celebrate the beauty of genuine, nurturing partnerships while...

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, your ultimate guide to mastering the intricacies of love, dating, and relationships. In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of romantic connections, offering invaluable insights and advice that you won't want to miss. Join us as we explore the unique dynamics between men and women, drawing on expert advice from relationship coach Alison Armstrong. Understand how men and women differ fundamentally and how this knowledge can work to your...

Join me as I dive into the secrets of creating lasting love and fulfilling relationships. With over two decades of experience helping successful women find their perfect partners, I share practical tips and transformative insights on embracing your feminine energy, attracting high-quality men, and maintaining a loving, supportive partnership. Whether you're single, dating, or married, discover how to become the best version of yourself and build a relationship where love flourishes. Tune in...

In this episode, we dive into the attraction phase of relationships, exploring how different personality types draw specific kinds of partners. For Type A women, known as "rubies," their career-driven, masculine energy often attracts men in their feminine energy. This dynamic can lead to increased stress and exhaustion, as these women typically have lower estrogen and higher cortisol levels. We’ll discuss how this energy imbalance draws in "feminized" men or narcissists, who further drain...

In this episode of our podcast, I dive deep into the transformative potential of feminine and sexual energy. We explore how societal norms often lead women to feel used and disconnected from their true power. Drawing from historical sources and modern insights, we discuss reclaiming feminine energy as a potent force for manifesting love, wealth, and health. Addressing issues of sexual trauma and societal conditioning, we offer practical guidance on harnessing sexual energy to heal and create...

In today's episode, we explore Sarah's remarkable journey through Diva University, a transformative experience that saw her overcoming deep-seated fears, dismantling limiting beliefs, and reclaiming her self-worth. Join us as we follow Sarah's courageous steps towards personal growth, which not only empowered her but also led to positive changes in her relationships and overall life. Through dedication, guidance, and perseverance, Sarah exemplified the importance of investing in oneself and...

In this episode, I'll be diving deep into the intricate science of attraction and the six essential phases that define every relationship journey. Drawing from my extensive experience as a master certified love strategist, I'll introduce you to five distinct love archetypes—ruby, amethyst, onyx, diamond, and creme—crafted over my two-decade-long career dedicated to helping women heal and discover their ideal romantic partners. Throughout our conversation, I'll unveil how each archetype...

Join me for an insightful discussion on the crucial importance of self-value in relationships and dating. I passionately advocate for women to prioritize their time and avoid freely giving it away. Excessive phone calls and early dinner dates can inadvertently signal low self-worth. Instead, I propose coffee dates as a practical means to vet potential partners and establish mutual respect and compatibility. With an emphasis on dating with intention, I share personal anecdotes and...

In this episode, we will cover the profound reasons behind the dissatisfaction experienced by many women in their relationships, whether they are single, dating, or married. Join us as we explore how societal expectations and misconceptions have led women astray, leaving them drained and disconnected. We'll delve into the science of attraction and relationship dynamics, uncovering the secrets to fostering genuine connections and deepening intimacy. Learn about the stages of healing,...