INTRO Chelli is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship expert, and the author of Insight is 20/20: How To Trust Yourself To Protect Yourself From Narcissistic Abuse & Toxic Relationships (publishing May 2022). WHAT WE TALK ABOUT Why it’s so easy to get sucked into a toxic, abusive relationship That charming person you fall in love with could be a narcissist, a sociopath, or even a psychopath, or they might just have traits and not even be fully diagnosable. They can appear to be very seductive and charming and superficial in the beginning when everything seems wonderful. You think you've met prince charming and all of a sudden you realise, you know, later on down the road, I always like to say, it's not prince charming. It's prince harming or the prince you fell in love with is harming,  as you realise, you're being controlled, you're being manipulated, you're being gas lit…….. Why we continue to accept this behaviour, and why we continue to do so.   Chelli Pumphrey BIO Chelli Pumphrey, MA, LPC is a licensed psychotherapist, globally recognized relationship coach and author with over 30 years of clinical experience. She is the author of Insight is 20/20: How to Trust Yourself To Protect Yourself from Narcissistic Abuse & Toxic Relationships and was a featured relationship coach in LEAP: The Coaching Movie. She serves on the Board of Advisors for the Association for NPD/Psychopathy Survivor Treatment, Research, & Education and is the founder and Clinical Director of Trilogy Holistic Mental Health in Denver, Colorado. Chelli also maintains her own private practice where she specializes in working with trauma, adult attachment, narcissistic abuse, and pathological love relationships.    CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS Website - https://www.chellipumphrey.com/ Linkedin - Https://www.linkedin.com/in/chellipumphrey/ Instagram – chelli Pumphrey coaching Book ‘Insight is 20/20’  Link to book on Amazon - https://www.amazon.co.uk/ ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL Wendy is a Psychotherapist, Coach, Public Speaker, and Author. She helps people who are stuck either in their personal, professional or relationships, get to the root of the problem which is holding them back, let go - and move forward into a happier more successful life.   Connect with Wendy Here...... Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Copewelltherapies Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendycapewell/ YouTube Channel - Youtube channel Website - https://www.wendycapewell.co.uk/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/wendycapewell/ Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship’- Link to Amazon Email – [email protected] Sign up for my Newsletter -  http://bit.ly/2RpjY8g If you have enjoyed this show then please leave a review.