Episodes
You might remember Stacy from Season 5 of Netflix's "Love is Blind", but today she joins us to discuss the aftermath of the show including her public coming out and queer relationship. She discusses her challenges with labels, the term "queer" and early signs that she might have been interested in women.
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Published 11/19/24
This week's episode with The Lesbian of the Year, Leandra Earl of The Beaches centers around break ups and heartbreak. Leandra shares her story of getting out of a complicated relationship and how she has coped with the breakup while on the road.
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Published 11/12/24
To celebrate Made It Out's one-year anniversary, we are doing something a little different today! Mal and good friend Ali play a new queer get-to-know-you card game - Just a "Phase". Mal and Ali take turn answering questions about their life, their coming out, sex and relationships, and so much more!
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Published 11/05/24
Actor Devery Jacobs shares her experiences as a queer Mohawk woman, navigating the intersection of her cultural identity and sexual orientation. She discusses the challenges and complexities of being LGBTQ+ within Indigenous communities, including historical and contemporary cultural norms, family acceptance, and spiritual beliefs.
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Published 10/29/24
Comedian and Podcast Host Ashley Gavin joins Mal to discuss gender norms in a same-sex relationship, the 'second adolescence' experienced after coming out, toxic masculinity in the lesbian community, and breaking stereotypes.
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Published 10/22/24
The 5th episode of our voter education series - Made It Out (to the polls) takes a deep dive into how the radical right-wing has used the bible and weaponized it against the LGBTQ community and to pass regressive laws. Organizer from Houston, Lauren Ashley Simmons discusses, the various anti-LGBTQ laws being passed around the country, including book bans, gender-affirming care bans and bathroom bans. This episode also includes many fun cameos to explain political concepts including: Chelsea...
Published 10/10/24
Mal is joined by her (fast) friend Talin to discuss their experiences dating people who are not out to their families. This episode is a fiery mix of fun, heart, and sexy!!
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Published 10/08/24
Join Minnesota State Senator Erin Maye Quade for the 4th episode of our voter education series - Made It Out (to the polls)! This episode's discussion centers around reproductive healthcare with a focus on IVF - and understanding why it's at risk today. Senator Quade explains the Alabama court ruling that has had ripples across the country. This conversation also addresses gender affirming care bans, the anti-abortion movement's long term plan, and also includes fun cameos to explain...
Published 10/03/24
Victoria Williams joins Mal this week to discuss various aspects of merging lives with a partner: from figuring out finances, homeownership, overcoming background & cultural differences and debating whether the dog should or should not be allowed to sleep in the bed... (the only correct answer here is NO!)
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Published 10/01/24
On the 3rd episode of Made It Out (to the polls), Mal sits down with Wisconsin Senator Tammy Baldwin to discuss her incredible work for LGBTQ rights, specifically The Respect For Marriage Act. This episode explains the history of same-sex marriage as well as the threats posed to Obergefell by the current makeup of the Supreme Court and another Trump presidency - it also includes many fun cameos to explain political concepts including: Alix Traeger, Zoya Biglary, Hina and Zolita!
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Published 09/26/24
The episode you've all been DMing us for! This week we've got an expert in the house: none other than sex therapist Casey Tanner, MA, LCPC, CST. Casey answers some of our most frequently asked questions, including:
- Is Lesbian Bed Death real or a myth?
- How can a couple get out of a sex rut?
- Should my partner and I schedule sex?
- How do we compromise in a relationship where partners have vastly different sex drives?
- How can past trauma impact sexual desire?
- How important is sex,...
Published 09/24/24
This is the 2nd episode of our voter education series for queer women: Made It Out (to the polls), in collaboration with LPAC. This episode, Texas State Senator Molly Cook and our host Mal share their personal stories of getting abortions in Texas, the stigmas and misconceptions that came with it, and discuss the status of abortion laws today. Senator Cook explains the Roe V. Wade case and why it was overturned, and multiple celebrity cameos such as Shannon Beveridge, Jonica Booth, and more,...
Published 09/19/24
Welcome to our voter education series for queer women: Made It Out (to the polls), in collaboration with LPAC. This limited series will air on Thursdays for 4 weeks, but we wanted to share an episode on our regular Tuesday slot to show you what it's about. This episode, Vermont State Representative Becca Balint discusses Project 2025 - she explains what it is, how real of a threat it is to the LGBTQ community and what we can do to stop it. This episode also includes cameos from Jacqueline...
Published 09/17/24
Sisters Cristal and Alisa Ramirez of 'The Aces' share their experiences growing up in a Mormon family, their struggles with religion and queerness, and their journeys to self-acceptance. They discuss challenging traditional Mormon expectations, rebelling against societal norms, and how music has always been their North Star. The conversation also covers their relationship, changes in faith, and the importance of following what brings you joy.
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Published 09/10/24
This week, Jenna shares her journey of overcoming addiction to adderall and cocaine in her early 20s. She opens up about her rehab experience: a life-changing time where she learned about herself and formed really meaningful connections, and how she learned to find dopamine in healthy ways. Jenna talks about the challenges of managing social events centered around alcohol and drugs, especially after coming off "MTV's Are You The One", and the importance of supportive relationships and honesty...
Published 09/03/24
This week's episode is special for many reasons - watch until the end for a big announcement!
Janelle shares her personal journey battling cancer in her early 20s and how it impacted her life: from coming out to finding a greater purpose. Janelle discusses the stages of fighting for her life, occasionally letting in her "darkness", and how her wife's love helped her overcome the toughest battle.
The second half of this episode focuses on LPAC and its purpose: getting queer women and...
Published 08/27/24
Comedian Gracin and Mal share their experiences with having an Anxious Attachment style: the roots, the tendencies, how it impacts their relationships, and their journey to healing! We also discuss important matters like Julia Fox's coming out, dream jobs at Macy's, and ugly criers.
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Published 08/20/24
Have you always wanted to take a gender studies class but didn’t want to pay that pesky tuition? You’re in luck! This week, Professor Fightmaster is going to discuss the true meaning of masculinity and femininity, society’s construct of gender, the impact of the male gaze, toxic masculinity and gender fluidity. More importantly, this episode answers burning questions like how do we unlearn the norms that we’ve been taught, and where are the nuts? Get your notebooks out and ready!
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Published 08/13/24
FULL EPISODE: Christina joins Mal this week to share her journey of coming out to her traditional Indian family and the journey that led her to her beautiful wedding in Italy. From experiencing homophobia while ring shopping, to proposing to her girlfriend on the cliffs of Santorini, this episode hits a lot of highs and lows! Christina discusses the cultural expectations she faced at home, her parents' supportive response to her coming out, and the process of planning her elopement.
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Published 08/06/24
Lauren Sanderson, iconic queer musician, shares her personal journey of understanding her avoidant attachment style, influenced by her upbringing with divorced parents. She discusses the challenges she faced, how it affected her romantic relationships, the anxious-avoidant trap, and her path to healing. Mal opens up about her anxious attachment style and how she has worked towards healing this as well. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-love, vulnerability, authenticity, and...
Published 07/30/24
Grammy-nominated songwriter, singer and actor Taylor Parx shares her story of breaking off her engagement and experiencing heartbreak for the first time. That ish is not fun. She discusses the challenges faced during this time and gives expert break up advice - from none other than the woman who wrote "Thank U, Next".
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Published 07/23/24
Comedian Robby Hoffman joins Mal on the couch this week to share her story of being outed at a conservative Jewish school. She explains some of the Jewish views on homosexuality, how she contemplated marrying a nice rich man instead of coming out, the aftermath of her first lesbian break up, and her journey to happiness with former Bachelorette Gabby Windey.
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Published 07/16/24
The talented Kathryn Gallagher joins Mal for a chat this week - in the woods of Connecticut! Kathryn and Mal discuss the pressures faced by young women who grow up in a world where winning the affection of men is the ultimate goal - and how that affected their ability to recognize their sexuality. The conversation dives into difficult topics such as overcoming sexual trauma and unwanted encounters with men, but emphasizes the importance of facing and healing from your past.
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Published 07/09/24
Comedian Madi Hart walks us through growing up as the "rebellious queer kid" in a very religious and conservative family. She discusses the conflicts she faced, particularly around her queer identity, and the intersection of misogyny and homophobia that surrounded her. Madi's experiences highlight the complexity of maintaining relationships with differing views and the importance of empathy, understanding, and self-acceptance. But best of all - Madi shares the story of hilariously ending up...
Published 07/02/24