Subscribe to Mamamia Savouring the season you’re in might be the most infuriating advice you could give someone. In today's episode we unpack whether phrases like "you'll miss this one day" are actually helpful... or just demeaning. We have some thoughts.  Plus, the book you should read this very weekend and a VERY talked about movie. It’s weekly recommendations.    And, Holly, Mia and Jessie wrap up the week with best and worst, which include: sitting in the dark with strangers, the unstoppable force of midlife female fury and a fancy kitchen gadget. What To Listen To Next:  Listen to our latest episode: How We Navigate Our Threesome Listen: Molly Mae, Divorce & A Very Flawed PR Strategy Listen: When You’re In A Very Different Life Season To Your Friends Listen: Em Rata And A Universal Truth About Divorce Listen: The Takedown Of Blake Lively Listen: Gus Walz, Emotional Policing & A Villain Listen: Hot Girl Glimmers Listen to Cancelled: It Ends With Us: Blake Lively, Justin Baldoni And A Theory Listen to Mid Listen to But Are You Happy?  Enter Lazy Gewl Giveaways here! Use code LAZYHAIR for 20% off a yearly subscription. Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts  Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place.  What To Read:  Read: OPINION: 'No amount of cherishing your kid now will let you skip feeling melancholy later.' READ: MIA FREEDMAN: Memo to mothers and future mothers: you will miss milestones, and that's OK. Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven-day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia  GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at [email protected] Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Mia Freedman & Jessie Stephens Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Senior Producer: Emeline Gazilas Audio Production: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.