Truth is your Best Friend
As difficult as it is to hear the truth. I am married (13+ years) to a non clinically diagnosed narcissist abuser. After I was counseled to no contact separate and did so for the past two months. He joined in group therapy for narc abusers and I set about my own healing and self awareness journey to learn why I choose him. I am currently working on learning about what is real? And via his therapist we are working on "us" and how to communicate the truth to each other. Listening, reading, watching as much information on this subject as I can stomach, all valuable and helpful. Then, just a few days ago as I was scrolling through youtube suggestions I saw Mental Healness from Lee being honest about his disorder and using the word "self aware" shocked me!!! After digesting the truth of his videos (through painful tears and gut punches) I realized how much I needed this raw truth from a narcissist because although none of the truth surprises me I was able to hear for the first time the truth if what my husband was really thinking and the why's of his abusive behavior. For the first time since the separation I felt I might be safe enough to possibly have a conversation with him, knowing that he has been practicing his cbt therapy in his thoughts and actions toward me. During our conversation Lee and his truths about what is going on inside the brain of a narcissist was so valuable to avoiding the traps and minefields of our past conversations. He actually asked me to send a link to his youtube channel! I am self aware enough to know that this is just a beginning to a very improbable but possible restoration in the far distant future of a lot of hard work and a lot of money--but there is this new found hope I now have :) So thank you for your truth, you and your precious wife are an answer to my prayers.Read full review »
cmcw1975 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 02/04/22
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I first saw you on TikTok and your insight described exactly what I was going through. Thanks to you I only endured 3 months of a toxic situationship before getting out and I’ve learned so much on how to protect myself in the future!! Your waving red flags might be one of my favorites😂🚩 Keep...Read full review »
arobertson09 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/06/22
I love how he’s so transparent with his thoughts and owns his diagnosis. A lot of people who are narcissistic don’t ever get diagnosed because they don’t see anything wrong with themselves, it’s always the other persons fault. I have personally struggled with having a relationship with my...Read full review »
kkllov via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/22/21
Im not sure what is happeneing, but I have to continually subscribe to the podcast as somehow I keep getting kicked off or something. Wanted to bring it to your attention in case its not on my end. Thanks Lee! You do really help me!
midrashportzcova via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 02/18/22
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