Define the Qualities You Must Possess to have the people you want in your community be attracted to you when you meet them. We’ve been discussing the empowering or disempowering capabilities of your community. We’re pretty sure this is not news to you. Most have heard all the memes, and it just makes common sense—unfortunately it’s just not commonly used. If you haven’t seen our previous episodes on this topic, we strongly recommend you catch up on them—they lay a lot of ground work for this one. We discussed in the last episode specific strategies for choosing your community. This cannot be haphazard, and it will not automatically include your family and friends. In fact, if you’re building your community correctly, choosing family and friends could be incredibly disempowering.