Episodes
In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of the 'Summer Shorts' series, we discuss the essential need for boundaries in marriage to foster healthy communication. We break down different types of boundaries such as personal space, communication, emotional, financial, and sexual boundaries, emphasizing their importance and offering practical advice on how to implement them. Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at...
Published 06/29/24
In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of our 'Summer Shorts' series, we dive deep into the nuances of nonverbal communication in marriages. We explore why spouses might say they're fine when they're not and discuss the impact of passive-aggressive behavior. We offer insights on understanding body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice to improve relationship dynamics. Additionally, we highlight the importance of aligning actions with words and...
Published 06/24/24
In this episode of the 'Needed Conversations' podcast, we talk about conflict resolution and communication for married couples. We review the foundational aspects of healthy communication—active listening, empathy, clarity, and prayer. Then the episode focuses on dealing with conflict by confronting the barriers of shame and condemnation through grace, mercy, and vulnerability. Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Looking Ahead: Hit the...
Published 06/15/24
In this episode of 'Needed Conversations' we kickstart our summer series, 'Summer Shorts.' In this episode 'Essential Communication Tips for Couples,' we're giving you practical advice to help improve communication between you and your spouse. We share insights about active listening, empathy, and clarity, emphasizing the importance of prayer in strengthening these skills. This episode also highlights our upcoming book release and the Forevermore Marriage Getaway happening on August 30-31 in...
Published 06/06/24
In today's episode, we discuss the impacts of our mental health and behaviors on our children. We explore how our actions, more than our words, shape their future. We share personal stories about how our recent move has affected our kids, revealing the anxieties they face and how we're helping them adjust. We also discuss the challenges of parenting in a society that often pushes for material success over emotional and spiritual well-being. You have the power the break generational curses off...
Published 05/01/24
Today's episode of Needed Conversations takes a heartfelt look at the subtle ways fear infiltrates our lives and relationships, particularly in marriage. We delve into how fears, often stemming from childhood experiences, shape our interactions and responses in adult life. Fear isn't always dramatic; it doesn't have to be the boogeyman or a sinister figure with red horns. More often, it's the quiet anxiety over rejection, the fear of not being enough, or the dread of failure that lurks in...
Published 04/25/24
Join us in this enlightening episode of "Needed Conversations" as we sit down with Trevor, the founder of the Art of Healing. Dive into a deep and transformative discussion on marriage, communication, and mental health. Whether you're navigating the complexities of marriage or seeking personal growth, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. What You'll Discover in This Episode: Trevor's Personal Journey: From a high-paced career at Tesla to a life-changing decision to...
Published 04/17/24
In the second episode of our series, "Marriage & Mental Health" we talk about depression and its root causes including the impact of social media and the role forgiveness plays in our mental health. We also talk about the journey of David in the Bible and his challenges with mental health. Finally, we discuss the one thing that a spouse can do to help their spouse during times of depression and hardship that can change everything! Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated...
Published 04/10/24
In this vulnerable episode, we tackle the complex world of mental health and how mental health can affect your marriage. Focusing on the impact of depression and anxiety we share personal stories and powerful insights to shed light on where depression comes from and how you can overcome. A key theme of our discussion is the influence of social media and modern lifestyle choices on our mental well-being. We will be hosting a digital detox to help you take hold of your mental health!...
Published 04/03/24
In this powerful finale of our "Power Couple" series, we are talking about how to manage crises as a married couple. From unexpected sickness to the stresses of moving and renovating a home, we share our personal journey of the last few weeks.What You'll Discover in This Episode:The hidden struggles behind the successes of a power couple.Practical steps for staying united and strong during times of crisis.The importance of creating a safe space for vulnerability and open communication.How to...
Published 03/27/24
Our interview for the series Power Couple is Aaron & Jennifer Smith! They are not just the authors of the bestselling book "Marriage after God," but they're also the creators behind the powerful online ministry that shares the same name.Through their work, Aaron and Jennifer have inspired couples around the world to find a deeper purpose in their marriages, emphasizing the critical roles of prayer, unity, and a shared mission in God's kingdom. That's right up our alley. As many of you...
Published 03/20/24
We're continuing our series called POWER COUPLE by talking about why every married couple needs to establish a creative process to reach their couple goals! A creative process can revolutionize how couples collaborate on their dreams, whether it's renovating a house, starting a business, or simply managing your family we are sharing our 5 D creative process to help you collaborate more effectively and achieve the God-sized dreams you have. The 5 Ds of the creative process: Dream, Define,...
Published 03/13/24
Welcome to the start of a new series on our podcast, Needed Conversations! This series called POWER COUPLE is all about unleashing multiplied power as a couple by learning the art of collaboration, communication, and prayer! In this first episode, we discuss the 5 characteristics of a successful collaboration. This includes: 1. VALUE...knowing what each of you brings to the table and respecting each other's contributions. 2. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION...Clear, honest, and open exchanges....
Published 03/06/24
This week we had the honor of sitting down with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo from One Extraordinary Marriage. We're continuing our conversation about cultivating passion in marriage by discussing their bestselling book The 6 Pillars of Intimacy. Get their book here https://www.amazon.com/Pillars-Intimacy-Secret-Extraordinary-Marriage/dp/0578991454 Be Part of Our Community: We invite you to join our intentional marriage community at:...
Published 02/28/24
Hello everyone, Ryan & Viktoriya here from "Needed Conversations," your go-to podcast for marriage empowerment. Today, we're finishing up the "12 Keys for Cultivating Passion in Marriage." Did you know that passion is more in your control than you think it is? By intentionally delighting in your spouse using these 12 strategies you can reignite the desire for one another. 🔑 What You'll Learn Today: 7. Shared Experiences: Understand the importance of creating memories together through...
Published 02/22/24
Hello everyone, Ryan & Viktoriya here from "Needed Conversations," your go-to podcast for marriage empowerment. Today, we're thrilled to share with you the first part of our special series: "12 Keys for Cultivating Passion in Marriage." Marriage is a beautiful journey of growth, intimacy, and spiritual connection. In this episode, we unveil the first six of twelve practical strategies aimed at deepening the bond between you and your spouse. From mastering the art of active listening to...
Published 02/14/24
What is passion in marriage & where does it come from? Can it be resurrected? There are so many couples who say "The spark is gone" or "I'm not in love in more" but fail to realize that we are more in control of our desire than we think we are. In this episode, we talk about how you can cultivate passion and desire in marriage. The bible has a lot to say about this topic including Psalm 37:4 "Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart." But the way we have...
Published 02/07/24
The origin story of the wife is often misunderstood. The name"Eve" didn't even emerge until after the couple in the Garden of Eden sinned and were removed. You see, the tension between men and women was a part of the curse, but through Christ, the story of Eve has been reversed and now we're able to discover God's original design for the wife. Along with discovering her real story, in this episode, we help women rise to their full potential by talking about how to: + Refine and strengthen...
Published 02/01/24
Since we've been talking about "the story of marriage" in our latest series of the podcast Needed Conversations, it's only right that we identify the main characters. In marriage, there are 3, God, the Husband, & the Wife. In this episode we focus on the origin story of the Husband, looking at God's original design, the responsibilities of a Godly husband, and uncovering the amazing illustration of a husband as a gardener. #PresenceDrivenMarriage #NeededConversations #husband...
Published 01/24/24
We've been in a series discussing God's Story of Marriage and what a story we have to share with you today! We had the privilege of sitting down with Josh and Katie Walters to hear the incredible story of hope and redemption. They began sharing about their marriage over 10 years ago when they told their vulnerable story at Seacoast Church for the first time in front of thousands of people. They told the story about how in 2008 they were confronted with a season of brokenness and God...
Published 01/17/24
In this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole," we discuss the importance of having a spiritual foundation in marriage, how to grow spiritually with your spouse, and how walking in the presence of God is paramount if you want to fulfill your purpose and have a marriage with a mission. #PresenceDrivenMarriage #NeededConversations #SpiritualMarriage #ChristianCouples #MarriageGoals #RyanAndViktoriyaCole Join our INTENTIONAL MARRIAGE COMMUNITY HERE:...
Published 01/10/24
What is the story that you're telling about your marriage? Do you want to repeat the story you told last year? It's time to return to the greatest story ever told...and maybe you'll be surprised to find out that it's a story of marriage too. In this episode of "Needed Conversations," Ryan and Viktoriya Cole dive deep into the heart of what makes a marriage truly meaningful. They explore the divine institution of marriage as God originally intended, drawing powerful insights from the Genesis...
Published 01/03/24
As we head into the holiday season, gatherings with extended family can put a strain on your marriage, if you aren't prepared for the potential challenges. Now you may have a great extended family, but even with the best of families, boundaries are important. In this episode, we talk about how to build healthy boundaries in marriage, especially with extended family. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you will have the...
Published 12/07/23
In the latest episode of "Needed Conversations," Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the art of building an Intentional Marriage for 2024. Discover what it truly means to have a marriage rooted in purpose by rethinking "romance" in marriage, date nights, and the faulty ideas you have about marriage. 🌍 A Special Announcement! Don't miss our upcoming FREE Online Marriage Event! The Intentional Marriage Webinar will be a game-changer for your relationship, offering strategies for a more fruitful...
Published 11/22/23