A few months ago June suggested John experiment playing separately with single ladies and couples, but NOT for the reason you think... Lots of couples are afraid to play separately in the swinger lifestyle (June was!). But when we both tried it, we not only overcame some obstacles as a couple and really enjoyed ourselves, but June overcame a major insecurity as a result! Listen in right now to hear her super hot sex story, along with a few HUGE lessons we learned that greatly enhanced our alr...

Lots of new couples to the swinger lifestyle argue A LOT about new issues they've never faced before. But don't worry, you're not alone! In this episode, we discuss simple and practical ways to clarify communication with your partner as you explore the swinger lifestyle together so you can overcome arguments, understand your partner more, and enjoy the hottest sex of your life! If you've ever had BIG BLOWOUT arguments with your partner while exploring the swinger lifestyle, this episode ...

Lots of couples in the swinger lifestyle struggle to establish healthy boundaries and it can RUIN their relationship! Whether it's between the couple or with others in the lifestyle, allowing people to cross your personal boundaries is destructive for everyone involved. Today, we answer a listener's email about establishing a boundary with her partner and getting on the same page so they be stronger in their relationship, avoid potentially toxic people in the swinger lifestyle, and enjoy...

Lots of guys in the swinger lifestyle have insecurities around the size of their d*cks in comparison to the size of other guys. But is bigger always better? In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we unpack a question we received from a listener concerned that if his lady experienced a "larger package" she may not enjoy him anymore. This fear is common for lots of men new to the swinger lifestyle and it's totally valid, but is it actually as BIG of an issue as many fear it is? The...

Swapping partners for the first few times can bring up lots of unexpected insecurities, thoughts, and emotions that can challenge your relationship (and swapping isn't always for everybody, and that's perfectly ok). In this episode, John & June discuss the thoughts and feelings that came up as they've explored swapping with other couples (from both HIS and HER individual perspectives). If swapping sounds exciting, but the newness to it makes you feel nervous or uneasy, take a listen to...

Have you ever wondered what it's like to go to a hotel sex party? Some people get nervous and don't know what to expect. This past weekend we went to a big "swinger hotel takeover" where the entire hotel was closed to the public and  was filled with 3 floors full of super sexy people roaming around in sexy costumes having lots of fun (and LOTS of sex!)! This was our very first hotel takeover since joining the swinger lifestyle and it got HOT!!! Listen to this episode right now to get all...

Have you ever feared your partner might get a little "too interested" in someone else if you're in the swinger lifestyle? Is the swinger lifestyle just a bunch of "beautiful people" who are perfect 10's and you fear you won't measure up? How does the Christian religion conflict or blend with the swinger lifestyle, and how do you reconcile the two? In today's episode, we discuss each of these issues briefly according to our own experiences and opinions, and how we are still moving forward...

You have the right to ALWAYS be comfortable in the swinger lifestyle and should never have to tolerate unwelcome or unwanted touches or advances. In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we discuss and clarify what exactly "consent" means, how to give it and get it, and how it works- whether in person or online (yes, this applies online!). Consent to touch another person is one of the absolute utmost important things to us in the swinger lifestyle, so make sure you're aware of and...

What is the best way to handle rejection? Nobody likes it, but you're going to have to give it and accept it sometimes in the swinger lifestyle. Almost nothing feels worse than rejection, but sometimes it also feels uncomfortable to think we may hurt someone's feelings by telling them 'no' when they ask us to 'play.'  In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we give you some very simple, easy-to-use phrases and strategies (and mindset shifts) you can use over and over again if you...

What does the average swinger do for a living? Are they just a bunch of weird, upscale rich people with nothing else to do but have sex with each other? Or are they average, every day people like the rest of us? What does the average swinger couple do for a living? Truth be told, you probably walk past swingers every day and they may even live in your neighborhood (or next door to you!). Yeah, we're totally not joking. In today's episode of the New Swinger's Podcast, we reveal several jobs...

Starting out in the swinger lifestyle can feel confusing or overwhelming if you've never explored it before, but it doesn't have to be that way. What should you do? What should you look out for? Who can help answer the multitude of questions you have and who can help you navigate the insecurities that may arise? In today's episode, we discuss 3 very simple guidelines that we wish someone would've laid out for us early on in the swinger lifestyle so we would've had a better compass for...

What is it ACTUALLY like to attend a swinger house party?  What really goes on behind those closed, locked doors? In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we jump into hot & juicy details about what it was like to attend our very first swinger house party, how we got invited, what it was like walking in the door, the vibe, what the people were like, our thoughts and feelings as we drove to the party together, the kinds of sex play we saw and experienced, and what ultimately ended...

You can't please everybody and no matter how much good you do, someone is going to be angry and offended. Today, we respond to some of the very few negative reviews the New Swingers Podcast has received. We discuss them openly, fairly, we clarify potential confusion when able, and remind people that this podcast isn't for everyone. To our haters, we truly wish you the best in your swinging journey and we hope you took something positive away from this swinger lifestyle podcast....

Lots of people new to the swinger lifestyle have questions about the lifestyle and also have questions about their relationship. In this episode, we unpack and answer some of the questions other swinger podcast listeners just like you emailed to us. If you have questions about the swinger lifestyle or your relationship you'd like to have anonymously answered on a future episode, simply email us right now at: [email protected] ---------- (YOU CAN ALSO FIND ALL OF THE RESOURCES...

Lots of people are curious about exploring the swinger lifestyle, but don't live near a big city.  So how exactly can you meet and connect with other swingers if you live in a small town or far from a big city? It's a LOT easier than you think. Simply CLICK HERE to easily view & connect with other like-minded swinger couples in your area in the next 24 hours or less, GUARANTEED! (Yup, no BS. It's actually true). Connect with others today so you can evolve in your sex life together and...

Single guys seem like they are treated like second-class citizens in the swinger lifestyle. So John went to a swinger's club by himself to pose as a single guy in order to understand what it's like to be in the swinger lifestyle WITHOUT a beautiful woman by your side (and all the 'perks' that come with it). "What struggles do single guy's face and can we help them do better?" June approved of John's experiment and asks him all kinds of questions so we can better help understand single guys...

You want to mention the swinger lifestyle to your spouse or partner, but you may be afraid of how they'll respond if you bring it up, right? You love them, but you also don't want to live the rest of your life devoid of who you are. So what do you do? How do you bring up the swinging lifestyle to your spouse or partner? In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we surveyed approx. 30 real people from the swinger lifestyle who are in our swinger social media groups and we asked them how...

If you've ever wanted to hear a super hot story about a REAL stay-at-home mom experiencing her first "double penetration" (DP) fantasy, listen to this episode! John secretly arranged for June to have her first DP experience for her birthday. Did she love it or hate it? How did she overcome the fear of trying it? Will she never do it again or is she hooked and chomping at the bit to do it again? In today's episode of the New Swinger's Podcast, you're going to hear the answers to all of these...

Do you wanna meet other hot & sexy swingers in your area, but aren't sure how to find and connect with them on social media? Lots of people new to the swinger lifestyle struggle to connect with other people like them in their area. But in this episode, we discuss multiple ways you can easily connect with other hot swingers in your area in the next 24 hour or less! (Yup, not exaggerating. We do it). We talk about how we do it, do's and don'ts, and how you can, too. CLICK the link below to...

Lots of people who are new to the swinger lifestyle feel anxious at the thought of doing a "full swap" (sharing partners for intercourse). Today, we give you the hot & steamy details of our first "full swap" experience in the swinger lifestyle. How it happened, what led to it, what we learned through it, thoughts and emotions before and after doing our first full swap, would we do it again, etc... If you're entertaining the thought of trying your first full swap soon or in the distant...

We recently enjoyed our very first unicorn who came to our house for a threesome! In the swinger lifestyle, a "unicorn" is a single lady who plays with others in the lifestyle. This is something we've been dreaming about for a while as swingers and our swinger unicorn "Special K" didn't disappoint! She's beautiful, hot, and totally open for exploring each other sexually. In this episode, we discuss not only the hot swinger fun we all had together in our threesome, but also the thoughts and...

Lots of people new to the swinger lifestyle struggle with the idea of sharing their partner or spouse with someone else. This is perfectly normal, by the way... In this episode, we unpack a lot of the ideas, thoughts, and myths we believed that caused us to have this same struggle in the beginning of our swinger journey and how we overcame much of it in a relatively short period of time and how you can, too.  If you've ever felt uneasy or disturbed by the thought of sharing your partner with...

Do you want approach other couples in the swinger lifestyle to play with, but you feel nervous or odd trying to introduce yourselves to new people? Are you afraid of rejection or coming off as a "creeper?" Then fear NO MORE! In this episode, we discuss a VERY simple & effective way we approach couples in the swinger lifestyle that makes everyone not only feel comfortable connecting, but also very often leads to playing with other couples (even if its the very first time we've met!). If...

What would you do if your partner screamed someone else's name during sex while swapping, but they never scream your name during sex? In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we address a fellow swinger's email asking our thoughts on this sensitive subject with his partner while full swapping with their friends, a few different things it could mean, and 3 simple steps he (and you) can take to overcome performance anxiety, get and keep an erection longer, and enjoy better sex more often...