How do you allow for more choice and more freedom, whilst also balancing family rules and boundaries? From sleepovers to language use, to the individual freedoms kids want as they grow, how do you hand over responsibility to your children, whilst navigating with a compass that feels safe and nurturing for you. In this episode we discuss: Holding on or handing over responsilbity to your children as they growParenting the same or the opposite of your own personal experienceBringing clarity to where your rules come from and discerning if they’re still true for youAttuning to the bigger vision you have for your familyRealising we look to a rule to make us feel safe when we’re stressedChoosing your rules mindfully so they’re more likely to be adhered toTransparency when it’s challenging, so you have more space to ‘stay with it’The self-checkin checklistBorrowing other people’s perspectivesGetting clarity on what you’re willing to negotiate and what you’re notInviting in co-parents and kids to the negotiations and discussions To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/ To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/