When you know you’re stuck in a negative loop about your child, how do you prevent it becoming part of their identity? Let’s give ourselves permission to feel the feelings and stretch our thinking beyond the polarisation. In this episode we discuss:- Finding the drawbacks of how you think they ‘should’ be- Moving beyond seeing this trait as the most dominant part of their personality- Supporting your kids to work on those tricky traits in a healthy way - Getting out of negative thought loops ...