Episodes
Published 11/12/24
Have you ever dated someone who embarrassed you or cheated to get out of a relationship? In this episode, we find out if those strategies work. We also discuss what to do after a breakup and what to avoid in new relationships.
Published 10/29/24
In this episode, we find out if soul mates are real, if gifts should be returned after a breakup and what to do if you start missing an old flame. We also help a listener who is back in the market after a being in a long relationship. 01:02 Are soul mates real? 03:02 Do you miss old flames? 04:34 Does Mr. Organik have a kindred spirit? 10:12 What lessons have you learned from a past relationship that brought into a new one? 16:48 Can you find love after a breakup?
Published 10/22/24
Published 10/22/24
In this episode, we find out if life was easier before making money and we ask the age-old question does money buy happiness? We also help a listener who just came into some money and we find out if you can build an empire while also maintaining a relationship.
Published 10/16/24
In this episode, we find out who likes to prank their significant other and if there is ever a time when your goals are more important than your relationship. The hosts also help a listener with a marriage ultimatum.
Published 10/08/24
In this episode, the hosts travel back in time and we find out what they would tell their younger selves. We also help a listener who has a BFF with sticky fingers.
Published 10/01/24
In this episode we find out if one of the hosts has ever stolen from a partner and what's the craziest lie they have ever told someone. We also get to the bottom of long-distance relationships and if they ever work.
Published 09/24/24
In this episode, we find out what’s the craziest thing someone has done for love, why checking your partner’s phone is risky and we help a listener deal with a cheating fiasco.  00:50 Have you ever created a fake account to find out if your significant lover is cheating? 03:20 What’s in Organik’s phone? 06:00 What are your last 10 photos? 08:45 What’s the craziest thing you’ve done in the name of love? 11:20 Why is Xena sleeping in the studio? 16:06 Luis shares a wild story about how...
Published 09/10/24
In this episode we find out if any hosts have ever kept a financial secret from a partner, we ask if a man support you and we breakdown why people should open their horizons when dating.  01:05 Have you ever kept a financial secret from your partner? 05:32 Have you ever lent money to a partner and not been paid back? 17:30 Should a man you’re with financially support you? 25:40 Should a man court you? 27:35 Who should pay if you go out to eat? 32:02 Telling your partner your financial...
Published 09/03/24
In part two we have the crew and Smart giving their thoughts on marriage, power structures and giving sound advice to a listener who is having an issue with her boyfriend. Follow Smart https://www.instagram.com/thesmartguy_?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
Published 08/27/24
Published 08/20/24
On this episode, we have motivational speaker, artist, and future light heavyweight champ Smart discussing his keys to success and why leadership and accountability are important in the black community. Follow Smart https://www.instagram.com/thesmartguy_?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
Published 08/20/24
In this episode, we discover what happens when the honeymoon phase is over and if any hosts have ever ghosted someone. We also answer a listener’s questions, give some tips on how cheaters get caught and we find out why safety is always important. 00:39 Have You Ever Clicked With Someone In The Bedroom But Hated Their Personality?  07:56 How Do You Handle Red Flags Once The Honeymoon Period Is Over? 23:17 Is Subscribing To Your Ex’s OF Page Cheating? 37:42 Get This Off My Chest!
Published 08/13/24
In this episode, the hosts discuss which city has the best gentlemen’s club and why people are addicted to certain private home videos. The crew also gets to the bottom of why people cheat and we have something to get off our chest this episode.
Published 08/06/24
In this episode, the hosts break out their finest sleepwear as they discuss what they would do in Vegas if they could hang out with any celebrity and had to spend a million dollars in 48 hours. We also find out how far into the relationship granny panties make their first appearance and the hosts show off their acting skills. 
Published 07/30/24
In this episode, we discover what song gets the team started for the day and why holding money to your ear might be considered clown behavior. The crew also gives a listener some great advice and we get something off our chest!
Published 07/23/24
In this episode, we discover which countries have the most beautiful people, who are better at keeping secrets and the hosts have something to get off their chests. We also find out what secret talents the crew has that nobody knows about.
Published 07/16/24
In this episode, we find out how the hosts have grown since their past relationships, why some people stay in abusive relationships and the crew introduces a new segment that will have you rolling on the floor laughing.
Published 07/09/24
In this episode, we give flowers to those who helped us along the way and we find out how our past affects our current relationships. We also give a scorned listener advice on what to do about a co-worker who snatched her crush away.
Published 07/02/24
In this episode we find out what percentage of your ex’s want you back and the hosts reveal the biggest arguments they’ve had with their partners. The crew also gives advice on how to deal with a pathological liar.
Published 06/25/24
How important is forgiveness in a relationship? What things have you learned from past partners and relationships? We get to the bottom of these topics and find out who is actually thee prize in a relationship.
Published 06/18/24
Can you be friends with an ex? Can your new boo be friends with their exes? We explore this topic, give the people some great book recommendations and get in everyone’s business with a confession segment that you won’t want to miss.
Published 06/11/24
On this episode we explore age gaps and being kept. Rah’s all men cheat campaign continues and the jokes roll in as always, join us for the latest episode of On The Contrary
Published 06/04/24
The hosts get personal with this week’s opening question and an ambiguous question of the week leads to a spicy conversation with the hosts. You don’t want to miss this episode of On The Contrary.
Published 05/28/24