Who's yo daddy??  “Oh no! Some old men won’t let me use my uterus the way I want to!”  Every few years, this issue becomes a hot topic, and people get their panties in a bunch.  Why on earth did you give your reproductive power to a bunch of old men? And to be fair, some women too.  It always floors me to hear so-called feminists and “women’s rights activists” who claim to be all about women’s empowerment, lament how they have no power.  Because they’ve given it all away.  There is another...

Sex can be used as an escape, to make you UNconscious.  Or, it can be used to bring you MORE conscious and elevate you and every part of your life.  We’re all about orgasmic enlightenment in these parts.   Sex is alchemy. It’s transformation.  It’s taking your base parts and fusing them into gold.  You can use sex to help you to move through challenges and emotional and physical pain. In this episode:  How I f**ked my way out of a brutal breakup Metabolizing stuck energy to lose...

One of the biggest sex and relationship myths out there is the notion that lifelong sex is an impossibility.  In today’s episode, I’m speaking to Well-F****d All Star Jeff, of the Well-F****d Couple Jeff and Jen.  They did a year of Anami, where they signed up for all of my courses and dedicated themselves to up-levelling their sex lives.  They’ve been together for 30 years. And the sex is hotter. Than. Ever. In our conversation he shares what Anami Well-F**ked Way of Life concepts they’ve...

What Is a Pussy Whisperer?  A man who knows his way around a woman and a pussy.  He coaxes that pussy into openness and orgasms.  In today’s episode we have a compilation of some great Well-F**ked All Star pussy whispering clips and they’ll share their own secrets to success.  And I’ll give you the 7 Golden Rules of Pussy Whispering. ** If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, which is open NOW!  In my...

No, men, I am NOT coming for your orgasm. In fact, I want you to have better, bigger, wilder orgasms that get you high.  And also:  Make you more money and advance your career Make you more alpha and less betaIncrease your Axe-Factor attractiveness to womenBoost your fitness and make you able to pump harder at the gymMake you into a legendary Supercock who can go for hours and deliver multiple, life-changing orgasms to your womanYou in? So how do you do it? Orgasm without ejaculation. Yes,...

There are a LOT of potential reasons—plural!—why your woman doesn’t want to have sex with you.  Contrary to popular social programming, women are sexually voracious. Insatiable even.  Once you turn them on and open them up, they are a well that never runs dry. So why isn’t your woman voracious with you?  Find out in today’s episode.  Sexual Mastery for Men is opening for registration at the end of August. In this 8-week online salon you’ll learn: Superstar stamina and breathing techniques...

What happens when you inhabit your masculine strength and power? You also inhabit your cock.  Because you know—what you focus on grows.  As you show up in your life and you start bending it over and pulling it by the hair and having your way with it, life opens up to you.  Your woman opens up to you.  When you put in the time and effort to transform yourself from a Two-Pump Chump—or whatever underfucked version of yourself you are—into a Supercock, your entire life changes.  Just ask...

When your woman is resistant to going deeper with you emotionally and sexually, what can you do?  How do you open her? In today’s episode, Matt shares his story of meeting his wife-to-be as a virgin and from a repressed cultural upbringing and how she blossomed into a gushing, salacious “I love getting on my knees for you” insatiable cock monster.  We discuss:  - Top 5 tips to turn your woman into an insatiable cock monster  - Aligning your cock and your heart  - Holding space for your...

How to be irresistible.  What’s the milkshake that brings all the boys to the yard? How can you draw good things to you in your life?  In our Well-F**ked all star adventures we hear of men crossing eight lanes of traffic to ask a woman for her number. Or making websites just to ask them on dates.  Yes. All true stories.  So what is this uber-attractive quality and how do you get it? It’s definitely something you can create within yourself.  But it’s not any kind of 8-step beauty routine or...

Who does it better? Ozempic? Or Anami-style gourmet sex?  In today’s episode:  Anami Weight Loss RecipeMy secret to a flat belly Which orgasms are best for weight loss The alchemy of orgasms and their trauma-clearing potential Featuring Alexa who lost 76 pounds: “The weight just dropped off”. She also evaporated a throat and vaginal cyst And Robin who lost 60 pounds through alchemizing her issues: in her bed and vagina. Anami-style alchemical sex transforms your excess “weight” faster than...

It's never too late to be a multi-orgasmic, lubricating and ejaculating well-f**ked woman.   Today’s Well-F**ked All Star is Michelle. At the age of 60, she left a stifling 40-year marriage. A year later, at 61, she’s the most well-f**ked she’s ever been in her life. I LOVE hearing when people have the courage to leave something that deep down they know isn’t good for them. Despite finances, social standing, children, public opinion. They do it anyway. If you find yourself in a situation...

One of the holy grails in the sexual queendom is squirting. This is a necessary life skill for women and one that ALL women can cultivate.  The Anami Guarantee is that EVERY woman can hit the ceiling with her ejaculate.  Her “amrita” is like cosmic manifesting dust that gets shot over her whole life, imbuing it with a kind of radiance and magnetism that draws everything to her.  Once you awaken your vaginal superpowers, and you “come to” within yourself, the world “comes to you”.  Today’s...

If your orgasms aren't changing your life, are you even having sex? In Anami Land, your sex dates become sacred, set-in-stone, non-negotiable parts of your life, because you know the benefits they bring. They are your sanctuary, refuelling station, anti-depressant and anti-anxiety pill, creative inspiration and cash generators all at once. There is no better all-in-one panacea.  Once you realize that if you are feeling tired, or sad, or overweight, or broke, the best remedy is to orgasm your...

We’ve all heard the expressions:  “Tight ass.” “They’ve got a real stick up their ass.” This is legit urban slang meets deep psychological truth.  These people actually DO need something shoved up their ass.  Anal orgasms are very similar to cervical orgasms in women.  They are transcendent, deep and cosmic.  In men, the G-Spot is the prostate gland, conveniently located in the ass.  It acts as a turbo-booster, deepening the pleasure and the physical—and emotional—intensity of orgasm.  In...

When you give yourself ALL the f***s, you have no f***s left to give.  I always say that one of the hallmarks of becoming a well-f****d woman—or a well-f****d man—is that you reach the pinnacle stage of not giving a f**k what anyone thinks of you.  You have such clarity in your own truth, AND the confidence to act upon it in your life, that you give zero f***s about what anyone thinks about you.  You aren’t TRYING not to care. You just DON’T care.  All of your f***s are directed to the...

I’ve recently been on a transformative fitness journey and am now in the best shape of my life. Today’s episode is a personal share on: How I became fit as f**kAll things aging, or rather, anti-agingMy personal heroesMy diet and exercise routine80 is the new 50What I say to people who ask me to post pictures of “normal” people’s bodies***  My legendary Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration at the end of this month. This is the Anami guide to ALL things “as f**k”:  Orgasmic as...

“Shadow work” is a hot topic these days.  The reason why I say that sexual shadow work is THE most powerful shadow work—and I’d assert the only shadow work anyone really needs—is because there is SO MUCH taboo, repression, misinformation about all things sexual. And it runs SO deep. Whether it’s outright physical violation, genital mutilation or absorbing all of the negative beliefs projected upon us, everyone has some level of sexual trauma. Since our sexual energy is the core of who we...

“Shadow work” is a hot topic these days.  The reason why I say that sexual shadow work is THE most powerful shadow work—and I’d assert the only shadow work anyone really needs—is because there is SO MUCH taboo, repression, misinformation about all things sexual. And it runs SO deep. Whether it’s outright physical violation, genital mutilation or absorbing all of the negative beliefs projected upon us, everyone has some level of sexual trauma. Since our sexual energy is the core of who we...

Sex is medicine.  As Director for the Center of Underfucked Disease Control, the CUFDC, I am constantly looking at what makes the best sex, and giving people the prescriptions they need to elevate their sex lives.  I’m the best doctor ever. And one of the only ones who shows people how to heal themselves.  Did you know you can find God up your ass? And that eating ejaculate makes you smarter and cures depression? That daily cervical orgasms keep you in a state of spiritual bliss?  You...

Well-F**ked All Stars Jeff and Jen have been married for 30 years.  They found my work last year and have been on an Anami pilgrimage ever since!  They also happen to be endurance athletes. When they heard my philosophy of multi-hour and multi-day sex dates, it was game on! You’ll hear them share their story of turning around their relationship of three decades, how they become ultra-sex marathoners and what a 5-day sex date looks like. In this episode:  What’s a typical day on a 5-day sex...

Well-F**ked All Stars Alexis and Mitchell made 2023 their year of Anami. They’ve implemented pretty much every element of my philosophy and teachings into their lives and bed. Then they took it to the next level, Anami-style, by committing to six months of daily sex: “It started as a 180-day pact, and now it’s just a way of living.” Before you protest, yes they have children: three of them! And yet they still have sex every day—usually twice a day—with multi-hour sex sessions and the...

Last week we talked about the 5 Sexiest Things a Man Can Do.  This week, we’re all about the women.  What makes a woman irresistible?  What are the qualities of the feminine that speak to the primal, archetypal masculine, turning him on and bringing him to his knees?  What brings out his guttural manliness that inspires him to throw her over his shoulder and ravish her?  In this episode: The superpower of surrender Necessary life skills for women: vaginal hand jobs and deep throatingJust...

The seduction guide for men.  I guarantee that the following techniques have opened many a heart and legs, bringing them to their knees, and giving them deep, life-changing orgasms. These truly are the keys to the queendom.  I can give Neil Strauss a run for his money with the Anami Game Protocol.  Here’s how to game the chicks.  In this episode: My top five seduction techniques: must-dos for all men How to f**k a woman into oblivion Who is naturally more insatiable: men or women? The most...

But make it sexy. In a conscious relationship, we transmute our emotional connection and sexual energy into rejuvenating, healing and pro-creative power. We realize our relationship—and specifically our sex life—is the engine that fuels our entire lives.  In this episode:  9 signs of a conscious relationship The daily sex prayer: get on your knees The only acceptable answer is “F**k yes!”The aphrodisiac of honesty Hardcore genital love Becoming an unstoppable super power couple