Tara Schuster is an accomplished entertainment executive turned bestselling self-help author for people who don’t love self-help. After serving as vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central, she wrote the runaway hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, and this year released Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way. She joins the show to discuss why getting what you think you want might not be what you expect and how to build real self confidence, self worth and self esteem instead of relying on external validation. She shares simple tips to get out of a rut, overcome imposter syndrome, feel better about money and be the best version of yourself. Tara brings levity and humor to some heavy topics in this lively, fun conversation! Tara’s latest book: https://amzn.to/3S0hDRb Subscribe to Patreon for exclusive weekly content: patreon.com/ArielleLorre This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. Go to betterhelp.com/FILES to get 10% off your first month Visit qualialife.com/BLONDE for 50% off of Qualia Senolytic and code BLONDE at checkout for an additional 15% off Go to fatty15.com/BLONDE or use code BLONDE for an additional 15% off their Starter Kit. Get who gets you, on eHarmony! Sign up today at eharmony.com  Use MALK's store locator to find MALK Creamers at a store near you Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.