Overtime I've assessed why I keep ending up in situationships/relationships that I don't deserve, or why it's so hard to find someone you like that is actually good for you. There is so much that goes wrong in relationships and it's easy to blame the world because "we can't control peoples actions"... but if we're actually being honest with ourselves, the common denominator in these situations are ourselves. So what are we doing that is attracting less that situations into our lives?