In this episode, we interview special guest @sheisatang, The Facial Queen, a sex worker who started her career on OnlyFans. They discuss her journey into the sex work industry, the importance of authenticity and having a niche, and the challenges and rewards of being a creator. Tang shares her love for facials and blowjobs, and the satisfaction she gets from making her partners come. She also talks about the importance of mental health and self-care in the industry, and the need for thick skin to handle negative comments and criticism. In this conversation, Tang and I discuss the risks and challenges of being a sex worker, including online harassment, scams, and content theft. We also talk about the importance of maintaining personal privacy and the power of leverage. Tang shares her experience of working at music festivals and her love for weightlifting and fitness. We emphasize the mental and physical benefits of working out and the empowerment that comes from creating the life you want.   SHEISATANG is on OnlyFans, X, reddit, ManyVids, SextPanther, and Instagram.   Key Takeaways   -Authenticity and having a niche are key to standing out in the saturated sex work industry. -Being a sex worker requires dedication, hard work, and good time management skills. -Thick skin is necessary to handle negative comments and criticism. -Mental health and self-care are important for sex workers. -Sex work is not just about sex, but also about providing emotional support and connection to fans. -Having a supportive community of fellow sex workers is valuable for advice and friendship. -There is a misconception that sex work is easy, but it requires effort and hustle to be successful. -Sex workers should prioritize their own boundaries and well-being. -Being open and authentic about one's identity can help build a loyal fan base. -Sex work can be empowering and help individuals embrace their bodies and sexuality. Sex workers face risks such as online harassment, scams, and content theft, highlighting the importance of personal privacy and leveraging power. -Maintaining personal privacy is crucial in protecting oneself from potential harm and maintaining control over one's image and content. -Weightlifting and fitness can have significant mental and physical benefits, including improved mood, increased strength, and a sense of empowerment. -Creating the life you want and pursuing your passions, whether it's sex work or other interests, can lead to a fulfilling and satisfying life. -It's important to recognize that everyone's journey is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. It's essential to respect individual choices and live life on your own terms.   Chapters:   00:00 Introduction and Inspiration 03:19 Starting OnlyFans and Growing with a Partner 08:17 Authenticity and Doing What You Want in Life 11:14 Building Connections and Friendships in the Industry 16:24 The Pleasure of Facials and Blowjobs 25:03 Body Acceptance and Embracing Identity 29:44 Standing Out in the Saturated Industry 31:36 Dealing with Negativity and Developing Thick Skin 33:11 Empowerment and Embracing Sexuality in Sex Work 36:38 Protecting Personal Privacy and Leveraging Power 44:38 The Benefits of Weightlifting and Fitness 45:35 Creating the Life You Want 48:36 Respecting Individual Choices and Living Life on Your Own Terms   Keywords sex work, OnlyFans, authenticity, niche, challenges, rewards, facials, blowjobs, mental health, self-care, thick skin, sex work, online harassment, scams, content theft, personal privacy, leverage, music festivals, weightlifting, fitness, mental health, empowerment