In this conversation, Dr. Cam and Leslie Cohen-Ruberry explore the complexities of parenting teens, particularly those who exhibit intense emotions. Leslie shares her insights from years of experience as a clinical social worker, emphasizing that while parents may feel their child is a ’monster’ due to their behavior, these children are often misunderstood. The discussion covers the roots of emotional outbursts, effective strategies for de-escalation, and the importance of validation in communication. Leslie provides practical advice for parents on how to navigate these challenges, including the significance of reflection and repair after conflicts, and the necessity of building a strong connection with their children.