In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Zeo dive into common fears and challenges in relationships, particularly for individuals with dismissive or fearful-avoidant attachment styles. They explore the emotions and thoughts behind major relationship steps like moving in together and answer listener questions from Reddit and YouTube. Topics include understanding the avoidant mindset, how attachment styles influence cheating, and navigating difficult conversations around sensitive topics like pornography. Tune in for insights, practical advice, and personal stories on how to cultivate secure and healthy relationships. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 02:34 - Moving in With a Partner 04:21 - DAs Need Time Alone 07:27 - DAs and Co-Regulation 09:14 - Living With Your Partner: DA Stages 11:51 - Shame and Acceptance 13:21 - FAs Fears in Relationships 17:26 - Assuming Childhood Experiences into Adulthood 21:02 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 21:54 - DAs / FAs and Cheating 23:07 - Mike’s Response 26:02 - Why They Cheat 27:04 - DAs: Talk to Your Partner 31:43 - Meeting Your Needs 36:32 - Routines to Stay Connected 40:27 - Hello Fresh 41:54 - Indeed 43:46 - Question 44:16 - Mike’s Response 47:55 - Thais’ Response 53:26 - Find the Root Cause 56:05 - Talk to Your Partner (Mike) 57:40 - Talk to Your Partner (Thais) 59:09 - Find More Mike DiZio and PDS Content 59:46 - Conclusion  Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_id=sdQsYwFOJyQ&utm_content=mp-09-16-24&el=podcast Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices