Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-10-28-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-10-28-24&el=podcast In this episode, join Thais and co-host Mike as they dive deep into attachment styles, particularly focusing on the dynamics and hidden desires of the Fearful Avoidant (FA) attachment style. Together, they unpack how core attachment wounds influence the FA’s need for control, their oscillation between connection and independence, and the challenges they face in effectively communicating needs. Whether you’re an FA, in a relationship with one, or simply interested in attachment styles, this episode offers valuable insights, practical advice, and a deeper understanding of attachment-driven relationship dynamics. Tune in for relatable experiences, expert advice, and strategies to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Timestamps 00:00 - Intro 01:53 - What FAs Want in Relationships: Knowing What They Want 15:22 - All or Nothing Thinking 16:52 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 18:23 - Help Carrying the Load 24:17 - Healing Can Increase Energy 28:30 - Why FAs Don't Burn Out as Much 29:55 - Some Coping Mechanisms Can Drain Your Energy 31:35 - Hello Fresh 33:02 - Respecting Need for Space 41:36 - Someone Who Isn't Controlling 43:55 - Integrated Attachment Theory Certification 45:05 - Letting Go of Control 55:00 - Hot & Cold Emotions 1:02:44 - How Many of Us Are FA? 1:06:23 - Mike’s Perception of FA Traits as a Former DA 1:10:23 - Conclusion Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices