Episodes
Every man of God who is struggling with porn wants to be free.  In this episode, I'll walk through what I see as four pillars of the man of God who finds freedom. These can all be found in 2 Samual 10.
Published 04/06/24
How does Jesus respond to our sins? How did He respond to the woman caught in adultery and brought before Him by the scribes and Pharisees? In this episode, we dive into the powerful words of Jesus in this encounter and how they apply to us, His followers.
Published 03/24/24
Published 03/24/24
It says in John 7 that Jesus caused a division among those who heard him. Some believed while others wanted him arrested.  But even in the life of a follower, he can cause division. He will not allow us to sit on the fence and be casual bystanders in this life.  In this episode we will discuss the importance of commitment.
Published 03/15/24
Let's face it: I've made every mistake in the book when it comes to living a life of sexual integrity. And now that I speak with men every week about the same thing, I have noticed a BIG mistake that most of them are making. Listen in to find out what that mistake is and how you can avoid it. 
Published 03/07/24
Jesus did not seek His own glory. He constantly reminded people of this throughout the book of John.  His chief aim was to glorify God in all things. And He did that by telling the truth and having no falsehood in Himself. It had me asking the question, "How often do I seek my own glory even by telling lies of omission (not saying things I should be saying)? Hiding when I should be confessing...boasting when I should be fasting...laughing when I should be weeping." My flesh hates submission...
Published 03/03/24
John 7:17 - If anyone's will is to do God's will, he will know whether the teaching is from God or whether I am speaking on my own authority. Is your will to do God's will?  So often, men talk about obedience without actually obeying. And with that repetitive behavior comes a great danger - missing the truth of God's message. In today's episode, we dive into hearing the truth with the intention of obeying it. This is the man who will be blessed.
Published 03/02/24
Brothers, we want to be done forever with a lifestyle of habitual sexual sin.  This means that we must follow and set our minds on the things that the Spirit has His mind set on. In this episode, I will walk you through two ways we kill habitual sin through the power of the Holy Spirit.  Listen and then share it with a friend.
Published 03/01/24
Brothers, the LORD is so gracious to us and answers His children when we call on Him. Today, I want to walk you through five prayers I am praying for men struggling with sexual sin that I believe YOU, too, can adopt into your own time of prayer. These prayers have the potential to change your life forever!
Published 02/18/24
To be a single-minded man of God, we must let go of anything that would keep us from following the Lord's will for our lives.  To be a double-minded man is the norm in today's world. Limping between two worlds and doing neither any good.  In this episode, we'll explore the warnings we see in God's Word.
Published 02/05/24
What does it take to grow beyond our struggle with pornography? It takes faith in the promises of God. How do we grow our faith? We grow our faith by hearing, reading, studying, memorizing, and meditating on the Word of God. In this episode, we will look at four principles for approaching God's Word as outlined by John Newton.
Published 01/21/24
There is a lot we can learn from the life of Moses. Some of the most telling verses are found in the book of Hebrews that talk about what his faith enabled him to do for the glory of God. This episode will be both challenging and encouraging as we think about our own life and faith.
Published 01/17/24
The end of 2023 and the beginning of 2024 brought with it a lot of reflection. If 2023 were the last full year of my life, did I live it well?  If 2024 is the last year I'll be alive in this life, what would I hope to accomplish? In this episode, we look at the Word of God's call for a life of urgency. We cannot afford to spend another year trapped, stuck, and held back by sexual sin.
Published 01/13/24
Your best life is prayerfully and purposefully preparing for the next. In this episode, Spencer walks through several passages that encourage us to develop a long-term view of our life here.
Published 12/10/23
Jesus 'found' His first disciples and called them to follow Him. What a rich calling and yet they didn't have an idea what that looked like. They simply followed Him believing that the reward they would receive was sure to come. You and I can have faith in the same promises!
Published 11/25/23
In John, we read about the first disciples Jesus called to hang out with Him. We can learn several important aspects about being a true disciple of Christ from these early interactions.
Published 11/23/23
I learned a valuable lesson from a man who spent $50,000 to be instructed to do what he already knew he should be doing. I want to pass on this insight to you!
Published 09/30/23
A brother walked into my office this last week, and I asked him a question that I would ask you as well. "What do you and I need more than anything else?" In this episode, let's examine what that is by examining the humiliation and exaltation of Christ in Philippians.
Published 09/17/23
Calling on God during our troubles holds a promise and a responsibility. The promise is that he will deliver us.  The responsibility is that we will glorify Him. In this episode, we dive into Psalms 50:14-15 and see how God's deliverance will always lead to His praise.
Published 08/27/23
Peter said 'Have no fear of them...' What is it that so many men fear that keeps them trapped in the prison of porn? In this episode, we'll remember God's Word to all of us who find ourselves struggling with the fear of others.
Published 07/22/23
For men who constantly struggle with porn, it becomes a battle of belief - "Does God love me?" "Can He free me from this sin?" "Will he free me?" The true goal of the Christian life is not freedom from porn but life in Christ.  In this episode, we'll talk about the process each man of God should seek to walk in the Spirit.
Published 07/15/23
Paul addresses the church in Corinth in his first letter and calls out something that had become evident to him...that they were Christians operating out of the self-life and not the Spirit-life.  He said that he couldn't feed them meat but that they still needed milk. This is an idea the writer of Hebrews also communicated to the church...they were still babies in Christ.  So what does this mean for us?  It means that it's possible to be a believer but remain a child in the faith stuck in...
Published 07/08/23
Many men have asked me if they should install blockers on their phones, tablets, and computers. It's a great question and one I'll address on this episode. My answer may not be what you expect.
Published 06/15/23
What does preparing your mind for action like Peter encourages the church in 1Peter 1:13 look like? How should we think soberly about our life and our stewardship of opportunities God's given us? What is my responsibility to lead others when I'm having a difficult time leading myself?  Brother, the LORD has called you to a life of action and bearing fruit for His glory. This will never happen without our minds being ready for action. In this episode, I'll discuss some very practical things...
Published 06/12/23
When Asa saw his enemy of 1,000,000, even with his army of 580,000 mighty men of valor, he cried to the LORD. Why don't we turn to the LORD with urgency? Because, likely, we don't see the enemy for who he truly is.
Published 05/20/23