163 Playfulness, Vulnerability, and Parenting with Abbey & Liam from Evolving Love
Description
Abbey and Liam approach building conscious relationships in a way that’s refreshing, pragmatic, playful, and authentic, all at once. Their work focuses on creating space for open, real conversations about non-monogamy, and they’re really good at it!!
In this episode, Abbey and Liam share a lot about their journeys, including their gradual, relaxed approach to coming out as non-monogamous, how they prioritize parenting, and how they navigate challenges like jealousy, boundaries, commitment, and communication.
In this episode, we talk about:
— How Abby and Liam gradually came out as non-monogamous to friends and family
— Their experiences balancing non-monogamy and parenting a young child
— The importance of age-appropriate conversations about relationships with kids
— How non-monogamy has enhanced their connection as a couple
— Navigating jealousy, including Liam's "motorbike rule"
— The role of humor and levity in addressing relationship challenges
— How non-monogamy connects to mortality and living life fully
— The value of open communication in relationships
— Unpacking safety concerns vs. attachment fears in setting boundaries
Resources mentioned in this episode:
— The Evolving Love Project podcast
— The Evolving Love Project Substack
— Abbey's upcoming women's retreat in May 2024
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Music: Dance of Felt by Blue Dot Sessions
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