178 The One to Share with Your Concerned Family Members
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Are you struggling to talk to your friends and family about your non-monogamous identity? Whether you’re unsure how to start the conversation or you’ve tried before and it didn’t go so well, we’re here to help. This episode is a quick and easy resource to share directly with your loved ones. It addresses some common concerns and misconceptions about non-monogamy and shares tips for having more supportive and meaningful conversations. In this episode, we talk about: — Why non-monogamy isn't "better" or "more evolved" than monogamy — Common concerns about non-monogamy and how to address them — The importance of defining what a "successful" relationship means to you and your loved ones — Why the kids are alright–research on children in non-monogamous families — The core principles of ethical non-monogamy: consent, personal responsibility, and resilience — Why non-monogamous relationship skills can benefit all types of relationships — Common misconceptions about non-monogamy (it's not all about sex!) — How to have supportive conversations with your non-monogamous loved ones Resources mentioned in this episode: — Elizabeth Sheff's longitudinal studies on polyamorous families — Emily Nagoski's work on desire and sexuality Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at⁠⁠ www.JoliQuiz.com⁠ Get the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything here: www.jolihamilton.com/ama JOIN The Year of Opening community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠ Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart way Get the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything here Music: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions
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