Episodes
Welp! Trump won the election. And we are joined by Regan, the host of the F the Nice Guy Podcast, to dissect what this means for dating and sex! We cover the male loneliness epidemic, the 4B movement, women haters, Nick Fuentes, de-centering men, the patriarchy, self-love, safe sex, and more.
Published 11/19/24
Published 11/19/24
We are back deep-diving into your sex questions! We talk about how to prepare for anal, what to do if your partner doesn't come during sex, where a couple can begin to find a third, the best positions for a small p3nis, how to keep your mouth wet while giving a BJ, how to know if your vagina smells normal, what to do if your partner doesn't want to touch you, your partner being too tired when you want to do it, how to deal with feeling rejection if your partner has a lower sex drive than you,...
Published 11/12/24
In this episode, Abigail answers all your breakup questions! We talk about sex after breakups, if you can still be friends with an ex, what to do if you are friends with their friends and family, when it's okay to start dating again, how to find sexual intimacy when you are single, why people come back to their ex, how you know it's really over, if monogamous couples can stay together with a dead bedroom, how to deal with an anxious attachment, your friend dating your ex and more!
Published 11/05/24
This week, Jacquie Walters, the author of the very scary book Dearest, joins us. She walks us through how motherhood and postpartum inspired her newest horror novel! We deep dive into postpartum depression, psychosis, intrusive thoughts, anxiety, etc. We also nibble on body horror, period poops, weening, pumping, loneliness, and more.
Published 10/29/24
Cami and Niki from the Double Teamed Podcast, join us to answer all the sex questions you want to ask but don't know how to! We talk about bj movements, butt stuff, threesomes, soft swaps, circumcised vs uncircumcised d!cks, feeling confident in your skills, hawk tuahing, if size really matters, orgies, being the third in a hook up, squirting, sexual tension, foreplay, smut books and more.
Published 10/22/24
Jesse, my husband, and I deeeep deep dive into Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey. We talk about the history of both and how 50 Shades started as Twilight Fan Fiction. We also judge if these movies are actually sexy or silly. Basically, every thought anyone can have about Twilight and 50 Shades we address. By the end, you will know more than you ever needed to know about this universe LOL.
Published 10/15/24
The legendary sexpert Dan Savage is on the pod!! He is teaching us all about sexual compatibility, from figuring out if you have it with a new partner or bringing up your preferences to a new partner to realizing you are not sexually compatible with a current partner and how to change it. Or at least how to free them and yourself from boring sex! We also nibble on kinks, sexual peaks, the correct frequency to do it, f**k buddies, monogamy, polyamory, White Lotus, spicy Disney scenes, and...
Published 10/08/24
We got married, y'all!!! We are here to tell you what we learned from our wedding day! Listen for some laughs and to make a note of what to do or not to do on your future big day. We cover ceremony traditions, decompressing, getting ready, flowers, drunk food, wedding planners, bar options, weather prep, having sex on your wedding night, officiants, the after-party, cake cutting, and everything related to weddings! We also nibble on 50 Shades of Grey, Twilight, Honeymooning, Greece, Chap...
Published 10/01/24
My sister, Grace Jensen, joins us to chat about mistakes you might be making on first dates. We cover texting, the dating apps, first date spots, flirting, crossing the line, sober dating, dating events, etc. https://www.instagram.com/agewithgracenp/We also nibble on Botox, filler, intuitive eating, wedding stuff, weight lifting, pilates, body confidence and more.
Published 09/17/24
This week, we answer all your orgasm questions and teach you how to orgasm! The questions we answer are: "How do you get to an orgasm? I get tense but can’t get to the point of release.Is there a way to make my orgasms smaller? I cry after orgasms because I am overstimulated.Never have I ever successfully masturbated before. Any tips on how to start?Does drawing it out really make it more powerful?I feel overwhelmed during penetration with c**t stimulation and can’t O.Can you talk a...
Published 09/03/24
My fiance, Jesse Townes, is on the pod this week, and we are discussing everything we've done to prepare for the wedding! We share all the tips and tricks we've learned along the way and how we've prepped our relationship. We touch on wedding costs, combining finances, balancing family expectations, bridezillas, mental health, body confidence, wedding diet culture, cold feet, relationship anxieties, planning regrets, thoughts on kids, etc.
Published 08/20/24
My fiance, Jesse Townes, is back to answer your relationship questions! We cover: my husband refuses to give oral. How do I get around it?, Navigating when to say I love you and what to do if they don't say it back, what to do if your partner's sex drive is lower than yours, spontaneous desire vs responsive desire, feeling doubts during an engagement, when is the appropriate time to try and win your ex back, how to emotionally support your partner when they have a hard time maintaining an ere...
Published 08/13/24
Another episode on bjs!! We answer all your burning questions. Like should you put your tongue in the pee hole, how to give a bj to someone with a foreskin, the proper way to face f*ck, using a vibe during a bj, how to build up sensation and tension, what to do if your arms get tired, enthusiasm, what to do with your teeth, is 53 too old to learn how to give a good bj, how to bring up trying new things to your partner, how to talk about s*x with your partner, how long bjs should take, whiskey...
Published 08/06/24
Jesse Townes, my fiance and overall hot person, joins us to answer your relationship questions!! We cover p0rnography, jealousy, strategies for fighting healthy, what to do when you have different love languages, encouraging your partner to go to therapy, backsliding, being friends with your ex, boundaries, bringing up kinks with your partner, reconnecting after an argument, not being in the mood after a fight, the importance of sexual attraction, desire types, what to do if your partner tell...
Published 07/30/24
Abigail answers your most pressing BJ questions in this episode of Rat Girls podcast! We talk about deep throating, gag reflex, partners who can't come from bjs, what to do if you have GERD or struggle with acid reflex, what to do if your partner is super big or your mouth is small, hand motions, what to do if your tongue is short, how to handle a sore jaw, feeling confident, avoiding boredom, giving the balls some love, what to do when they finish, how to tell your partner you hate bjs, wher...
Published 07/23/24
In this week’s episode, we get honest about our anxiety journeys. We break down how we discovered we had anxiety and how we now treat it. From therapy to Prozac to breathing techniques to healing your inner child, we cover it all! We also talk about how anxiety affects our relationships with our partners and parents. If you have anxiety, this episode is for you! We also nibble on loneliness, bachelorette parties, sexism, Jumanji, Wall Unit AC, reparenting, and more.
Published 07/16/24
Youtuber and bestie Colton David joins us on this week’s episode!! He takes us through his journey to realizing and embracing his sexuality! He walks us through how he discovered he was gay to how he lives proudly now. We talk about coming out to family, queer inspirations, finding what you like, gay dating, hookup culture, and grindr.https://www.youtube.com/c/ColtonDavidhttps://www.instagram.com/coltondavidd/We also nibble on West Hollywood, Vanderpump Rules, getting the ick, hookups, bisexu...
Published 07/09/24
This week, we are joined by intimacy expert Susan Bratton. She is brilliant and hilarious and walks us through how to have the best orgasm possible. We are truly in awe of her as she teaches us about orgasmic potential, the p-spot, self-love techniques, nipplegasms, nipple play, throat-gasms, female ejaculation, vibrators, vulva sensitivity, and more.
Published 07/02/24
Musician, Comedian, and Quinn Voice Actor Cera Gibson joins us this week on Rat Girls!! She walks us through her Mormon upbringing, how the church skewed her view of sex, and how she eventually dismantled the shame she felt around sex and her sexuality.She is honest and open, and we’re so honored that she shared her story with us! https://www.instagram.com/ceragibson/?hl=enWe also nibble on polyamory, audio erotica, sex in the media, Vampire Diaries, sex education, LA parking tickets, an...
Published 06/25/24
This week, we’re joined by Gracie’s best friend and talented photographer, Josh Going. He shares his journey after weight loss and the complexities that have come with it, which he continues to navigate. He walks us through learning to love yourself first, fostering a relationship with yourself, and being straightforward in dating. We also giggle the entire episode about their spontaneous trip to Universal Studios, vacation haircuts, being misidentified as a heterosexual, NYC rat and subway s...
Published 06/18/24
In today’s episode, we’re answering the rattiest of questions. We nibble on date ideas, skincare routines, body confidence in the bedroom, PCOs, cunnilingus, the U spot, cartoon crushes, C anatomy, TikTok, and Vanderpump Rules.
Published 06/11/24
This week, Ali Jackson from the Finding Mr. Height Podcast joins us!! We’re talking about how to communicate directly during the talking stage. We cover dating app burnout, meeting dates in person, communication cadence, being authentically yourself, anxious attachment, how to end things without ghosting, how much to text during the beginning stages and more. https://findingmrheight.com/https://www.instagram.com/findingmrheight/?hl=enWe also nibble on bad gynecologists, leep procedures, ...
Published 06/04/24
Griff Stark-Ennis, host of Petty Crimes Podcast (and our bestie), joins us this week to chat about how freaking hard it is to make friends as an adult. He gives us his best advice on how to make the right friends for you. https://www.instagram.com/griffstarkennis/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/petty-crimes/id1612693094We also nibble on fedoras, petty crimes, dog culture, dating, Justin Timberlake, friend groups, and more.
Published 05/28/24
Arie Auston, a nurse practitioner and endo warrior, joins us to discuss her Endometriosis journey. She walks us through her symptoms, treatment options, complications, pain management, getting pregnant with endometriosis, etc. https://www.instagram.com/aesthetic.np.arie/https://www.instagram.com/endo_thejourney/We also nibble on filler, botox, constipation, Dairy Queen, cysts, and more.
Published 05/21/24