Okay, so let me first say - this episode was HARD to record.  We had a ton of technical issues and didn’t realize not once, twice but THREE times that our recorder STOPPED recording WITHOUT us knowing until 10-15 minutes later. BUT we persevered and we hope something in here speaks to you! We wanted to chat about what it looks like when we come to a crossroad in recovery where we have to choose which way we are going.  Are we going to keep fighting and not lose hope?  Or are we going to throw in the towel and give up. This (navigating the crossroad) is happening underneath some of the more tangible things that we are doing in recovery like working on boundaries, navigating triggers, etc and I think it’s important to name it when it’s happening. A couple of highlights: - Men have the greatest capacity to help their wives heal - the one that hurt us the most has the greatest capacity (besides God) to help us heal. - Three keys to navigating the crossroad (for women):  awareness including naming the crossroad, making the choice to keep fighting and finally, support from other women. - For men, it’s important to also have support as well as focusing on:  what is the next right thing?  (And truly taking it one small step at a time.) We are so glad YOU are here, thanks for joining us!    We mentioned Emily P Freeman’s podcast - The Next Right Thing.  Lovely in all the ways. Jason announced the Worthy of Her Trust workshop happening this March in TX.  Applications are live and you can get all the details for that here. There is also a women’s retreat happening the beginning of April - details are here. MasterClasses for men start next week on February 8th..  Click here to see all the details. We have a couple of spots left in the new groups starting this quarter for women.  Would love for you to join us - these groups are game changers! Would love to connect with you on Instagram - @shelley_martinkus.  We offer 1:1 coaching, couples recovery coaching, support groups, MasterClasses and on-line courses - check out our websites: redemptiveliving.com and rlforwomen.com for the full scoop!  Click here to subscribe to Shelley’s {almost} monthly letter + announcements. Click here to subscribe to Jason’s list.  Questions for the Podcast? Email us with the subject line: Podcast.