If you'd like to solve some of your conflict for good, it's important that your get to the underlying core issues - these are the deeper needs, desires, values and expectations that drive you both,Couples are in conflict because they are being driven by opposing core issues. When you understand this, and are clear about your specific underlying issues, the way you handle arguments, and disappointments changes dramatically.In this episode, I share a process to help you uncover your underlying core issues. The five steps presented will help you have more awareness and insight into what's happening for you both, so you can get to the heart of the matter rather than continuing to have conflict that keeps you going around in circles.Also mentioned in this episode:The Marriage UpGrade (https://marriageupgrade.drchavonne.com/) - my 6 month couples coaching program to help you and your spouse come together to solve your issues, get on the same page, and move your marriage in the direction you want. For more information, go to DrChavonne.com (DrChavonne.com)