Sadly, the one person most people need to give attention to is the one who doesn't get it, which is self.  That inner you is who's neglected the most and because of it people are living their lives in despair. Prisoners to their own wrong ways of thinking. The focus of most people is in the wrong place. You can't become better if you remain the same! Allow yourself to heal from your past pains. If you do, your life will never be the same again. Most people who don't heal, live their lives projecting their pains on others, while sabotging thier own lives. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.