If you chose a 10, you have some maturing to do. For most people a Ten (10) is superficial things such as looks (body, hair, eyes, etc), money, possessions, title, status, positions, etc. First of all that's the wrong way to choose someone, if you're looking for a healthy relationship. Second, you'll never find true love if your focus is on finding a 10. Substance is the only thing that will help you to form a healthy, strong, and lasting relatonship. It's way deeper than those superficial...

Many people are going through life only existing. It's like they're already dead, yet they fear death and don't want to die. Life isn't meant to be lived in this manner. People are too caught up in comfort when that comfort is holding many down and back. Make no mistake about it, just because people may acquire a lot, they can still be in a comfortable place internally. It is why people keep doing similiar things that aren't good for them and they make unhealthy choices and decisions; opening...

When people are unhealed they are also immature and can't see beyond their feelings, wants, desires. They can't see beyond their own imprisoned mindsets. These types of people are easily manipulated. It's really sad anyone will put his or herself in these types of situations. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Black people and ALL people, must wake up and shake off that brainwashed and oppressed mentality. You're keeping yourself down, with that old outdated mentality, Love yourself, love your people, and love all people. When will Black people make up and understand that although built on the backs of Blacks, you as a Black person at one point and even to some today, were NOT thought of as human. How inhumane is that??! Stop falling for the outdated lies and false beliefs that were designed to...

You're nasty and immature! The end! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

The only person can change you is you! I don't care how much you love your friend or how much your friend loves you, you can't fix them no more than they can fix you! Listen to learn more. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Any person who thinks one man's view is the view of all men on ANY subject, are wrong. When it comes to what a man thinks about a woman, it's his view, but he certainly can't speak for all men. It depends if he's mature or immature, as to how he thinks. Regardless, one man can't speak for all men.  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

We're more similiar than different. Things separates us, (money, possessions, titles, positions, power, status, etc), but internally people struggle with similiar things. Bottom line, no one is exempt from the good, bad, and the ugly. We all have our crosses to bear, NO ONE is exempt!  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Unfortunately, millions don't understand or have ever experienced real love, because they are blind to love. They don't love self and therefore, really don't know what love looks or feels like.  When you don't love yourself you will be led blindly by what you see, feel, want, and desire. If you don't love yourself, you won't recognize what love is or what it isn't, and you'll end up in happy relationships living unhappy lives. That goes for people from ALL walks of life! Become a supporter...

Not my words, I simply encourage you to read the Bible. Study for yourself. Many people don't read the Bible, they just repeat what they've heard someone else say. I learnt that a lot of what people say is scripture, can't be found in the Bible. It's true! If you get into the Word of God for yourself you will learn His ways. Many people choose to take the Word or their perception of it and use it how thy want for their own self gratification. Most things people call gifts of God are not...

Many people create relationships in their own heads that they believe to be real, when they aren't. Stop setting yourself up to be let down. The only way it's a real relationship is if both people are claiming it to be a relationship. Stop with the self-inflicted pain! It's unhealthy, mind, body, and soul. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

God created the woman to walk by the man's side, not in front of him, and not behind him but by his side. Too many women believe they are supposed to go from servants to slaves via submission. That's not God's content, but many people take the Bible out of context for the lack of knowledge and/or self gratification. A husband and wife can't cleave together, be on one accord, and become one, if the man think he's suppose to control and dominate her. A husband and wife is suppose to be a union,...

Many people are angry with God because of the things their going through or has gone through. As a child it's limited what you can do, but as an adult what you continue to go through falls on you. As adults we have to be accountable and responsible for our own lives. As adults most times we create the monsters in our lives (people and things). It's true, some things happen that are out of our control, but yet and still, it's up to us how we choose to go through anything. The mindset we have...

People are seeking and chasing after many things. You may want whatever it is now (instant), but sooner or later, it will cost you one way or another. When a person is seeking instant gratification they're led by lust of their flesh. It may feel good and/or look good, but it could be detrimental for you and your life. Many people are blind to their wants, desires, feelings, what they see, etc., which leads them into bad situations and oftentimes, with the wrong individuals. Lust is more than...

Abusers know they're abusers, but they'll always blame others for their behaviors. Because of their unhealed hearts and minds, whatever power you give to an abuser they will take. You empower them to be who they are in your life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

We've all have gone through something and we've all felt some pain to some degree. However, how we allow things to affect us falls on us. If we choose to hold on to pain, it stays with us and causes problems in our lives. Most people won't let go and only become comfortable with it. Don't be that person! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

I'm putting this episode out after missing putting out an episode on Monday. I've never missed putting out an episode since I started podcasting. I was in an area hit hard by the storm. This episode talks about people who you allow into your life. Bottom line is whatever or whomever you allow to cause you problems will do just that. Unfortunately, many people are in relationships with manipulative people, and those people will always do to you what you allow. People will always trick you into...

When you go through life trying to please and appease others you normally end up losing a sense of who you are. Not having the will to say no will make you always be that person to say yes, which leads to a lot of unnecessary drama and self-inflicted pain. You have no peace because it is you who gave it up. People treat you exactly how you have taught them and how you've allowed. Become a supporter of this podcast:...

Although it may hurt, it isn't the end of the world. Some of you totally disregard the fact that they DON'T want you. You only see what you want (you wanting them), which is why you're suffering so much. You allow them not wanting you to alter your life in a negative way. If a person doesn't want you, it should give you enough strength to want better for yourself and move on. Unfortunately, many people get caught up in their thoughts, feelings, and emotions and because of it, people allow...

Everything we do begins with a thought! You're in your own way and your mindset is your greatest enemy. Staying in the same negative place (mindset) is a choice no one should make. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

What else is there to say? Unfortunately, due to the hearts and minds of many, there is a lot more to say, because people don't want to hear the truth. If it's wrong, it's wrong for you! You can't see it until you can see past your feelings, wants, desires, and what you see. You can't see past it until you allow healing in your life. Stop chasing love, when you don't love yourself or know what love looks like. Become a supporter of this podcast:...

Sadly, the one person most people need to give attention to is the one who doesn't get it, which is self.  That inner you is who's neglected the most and because of it people are living their lives in despair. Prisoners to their own wrong ways of thinking. The focus of most people is in the wrong place. You can't become better if you remain the same! Allow yourself to heal from your past pains. If you do, your life will never be the same again. Most people who don't heal, live their lives...

Most people look outward for love, only to get everything but love in return! It is the reason most people never experience true love. Looking for some to love, validate, and complete you, will always having you chasing and seeking after love. If you want to know what love feels and look like, look inward. You must first learn to love yourself. Allow the inner you to heal so you can move on to become the best you possible. Become a supporter of this podcast:...

A parent can make or break their children. The sad part is because of unhealed hearts and minds, people can't see the damage they're doing to their children. They can't see the devastation they're causing in the children's lives. Many people are unhealed adults who are still carrying around past pain that has hindered and tainted their lives. Unfortunately many of these people are parents who project their hurt onto and into the lives of their children. Many children are reared in horrible...