I am discussing a question from an anxious attachment style subreddit. The anxious attachment style person is having issues with their avoidant attachment style leaning boyfriend wanting to have a long relationship break without communication. She says he is mostly a secure attachment style but his actions don't point that way. If a break in needed in a relationship one person shouldn't dictate all of the boundaries. If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, the secure attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style I have  two links to help you with figuring that out. The first link is a quick way to get your attachment style and lots of material to help you with your attachment style. The second link is a more detailed attachment quiz you can do multiple times depending on your current situation. Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs