When we talk about developing sexual health, typically all we focus on is avoiding "disease." Staying away from the bad stuff... But sexual health isn't just moving away from things you don't want. It's moving towards things you DO want. So, in this conversation, we're going to start talking about the fundamentals of sexual health... namely, the balance of safety and pleasure. They are both important aspects of your sexual health, and it's important to talk about them together.