Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being good & staying in, Griselda, The Hand Maid’s Tale, dance classes with delusional crushes, justice for Mariah the Scientist and Young Thug, and bad dreams about old jobs. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: prison baes, prison wife TikTok and dating someone with a record. Shoutout to a listener who is currently serving time for this episode recommendation! Would you stay with someone if they got locked up? What types of crimes would you draw the line at? Is the stigma for doing time valid? Is being a ride or die worth it? We’re talking: the facts about America’s f****d prison industrial system, racism, capitalism, the stigma around serving time and having a record, why it’s hard to have relationships while in prison, ride or die mentalities, the complexities of race, the legal system, and relationships, white women calling the cops on their black boyfriends, prison wife TikTok, visiting dress code and visiting grwms, prison wife responsibilities, how PTSD and trauma from prison can impact a relationship, prison baes looking for a penpal, people who fall in love with serial killers (hybristophilia), prisoner fetishes, handcuff play, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  Write a prisoner: https://writeaprisoner.com/prison-statistics or https://wireofhope.com/  Sources: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWUcpN/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWL9Ud/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWFeNa/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWmHNP/ https://www.quora.com/Do-inmates-have-pen-pals-If-so-what-does-it-feel-like-for-them-to-receive-letters-from-their-pen-pals#:~:text=There%20are%20almost%202%20million,have%20a%20regular%20pen%20pal https://www.quora.com/Do-inmates-have-pen-pals-If-so-what-does-it-feel-like-for-them-to-receive-letters-from-their-pen-pals#:~:text=There%20are%20almost%202%20million,have%20a%20regular%20pen%20pal https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hybristophilia https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/tv/a17804534/sexual-attraction-to-serial-killers/  https://writeaprisoner.com/prison-statistics  https://defensenet.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Incarceration-and-Family-Relationships-NHMRC-2010.pdf https://www.cbc.ca/documentarychannel/features/prison-relationships-face-serious-challenges-but-can-be-a-source-of-support https://news.utdallas.edu/social-sciences/courtesy-stigma-relationships-prison-2021/  https://lithub.com/looking-for-love-in-a-prison-cell/ Intro 00:00:00-00:02:22 What’s got us Wet & Dry this week? 00:02:22-00:07:20 Is America’s prison system f****d? (Listener poll) 00:07:20-00:09:27 Why the the prison system is f****d (quick facts) 00:09:27-00:16:21 Why it’s hard to have a relationship when you’re locked up 00:16:21-00:18:41 Would you date someone in prison? (Listener polls) 00:18:41-00:23:49 Is it bad to date someone with a record? 00:23:49-00:30:16 The complexities of the legal system, race, and relationships 00:30:16-00:36:47 The stigma around people who date people in prison 00:36:47-00:39:33 The truth about dating someone in prison 00:39:33-00:45:27 Prison wife TikTok, GRWMs, and Inmates spoiling their partners 00:45:27- 00:51:23 Prison wife responsibilities and hardships 00:51:23-01:03:22 Prison baes looking for a penpal 01:03:22-01:14:02 Hybristophilia 01:14:02-01:17:46 Prisoner fetishes and Kinks 01:17:46-01:22:32 Listener Stories 01:22:32-01:23:43 What’s got us Wet, Dry, and Confused (Wrap Up) 01:23:43-01:41:49 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: [email protected]  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincr