This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive liberal white women and their adoption of the 4B movement and blue bracelets post election. We’re talking: Decentering men, white women divorcing and breaking up with their husbands and boyfriends that voted for Trump, the dark side of the 4B movement, the problem with blaming men for everything, calling white men in, TERF, white feminism, the dangers of exclusionary feminism, how women uphold patriarchy , blue friendship bracelets,...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive toxic relationships in the media, dark romance, and art about abuse. We’re talking: It Ends with Us and the marketing disaster, Colleen Hoover, Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni, did It Ends With Us romanticize abuse?, what is the “right” story about abuse, input from survivors, why do people stay in toxic relationships?, who are stories about toxic relationships for?, what does good representation for survivors of domestic violence look...

Dear white women who voted for Trump, We’re Fiji and Autumn and we have a sex, relationships, and personal identity podcast but this is not a regular episode. When we discovered that 53% of white women in America voted for Trump we were shocked, hurt, and confused. In past years we probably would have blocked you, talked shxt, and looked down on you, but that doesn’t feel good or right anymore. We want real change and we want democracy, and we know you do too. For this episode we...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive sex education in America, censorship on tiktok, and puriteens. We’re talking: america’s fxcked up sexual history, Catholic school sex education, abstinence-only education, purity rings, consent education, experiences with sex education, menstrual health education, the Me too movement, the lack of LGBTQ+ sex ed, comprehensive and restrictive sex education laws and bills, the overturning of Roe v Wade, the moral panic over sex ed, trans...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive ovulation horniness. We’re talking: What is ovulation?, ovulation music, the menstruation cycle explained, tracking your period cycle, discharge, ovulation horny, going to the gyno, the problems with women’s healthcare, ultrasounds, post-ovulation clarity, men’s response to ovulation, the types of people you might be attracted to during ovulation, the types of sex you might like during ovulation, are you more attractive during ovulation?,...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new Netflix shows Te Perfect Couple and Average Joe, Eat Predators controversy, and my dog’s adoption day. Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: the depth of female friendship and friendship breakups. Why are we all competing and when can we just work it out on the remix? We’re talking: Early female friendships, romanticizing girlhood, the differences between male and female friendships, how female friendships are similar to...

Fiji and Autumn sat down to get real about what we've learned in the past year and a half as small podcast and youtube video essay creators. We share insights into our creator journey, the tools and equipment we use, advice for creators that are just getting started, and what to expect in terms of growth, money, and brand deals. If you guys are new here, welcome! We drop weekly episodes on Thursdays where we explore duality through deep diving topics about sex, relationships, and personal...

On this week's episode of s0 wet s0 dry (or vlog) Fiji and Autumn are reunited in Atlanta for Revolt World! Join us for our takeaways from the Revolt World as small podcast creators trying to make it. If you guys are new here, welcome! We drop weekly episodes on Thursdays where we explore duality through deep diving topics bout sex, relationships, and personal identity where internet trends and reality collide. From the online gender wars to misunderstood kinks to relearning how to date,...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Revolt world, new jobs, seasonal allergies, and being off my meds. Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: sugar dating. We’re talking: The history of sugar dating, types of sugar daddies, Seeking, transactional relationships, who are sugar babies, Lola, The Girlfriend Experience, how we portray sex workers in the media, sugar baby experiences, tiktok creators giving how to advice, the glamorization of sugar dating, the realities of...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with more literature events, Sabrina Carpenter’s new album, wanting to quit cigarettes, and messaging my delusional crush. Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: a deep dive into therapy speak. We’re talking: Defining therapy speak and therapy terms, BetterHelp, TikTok therapists, bad therapists, media literacy, the mental health crisis, access to healthcare, distancing ourselves from our emotions, the mental health stigma, is therapy...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with finding literature and arts events in Atlanta, love from our supporters, technical difficulties, and missing stripping. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: humiliation content and the influencer to OnlyFans pipeline. We’re talking: the LMS for a rate era, smash or pass, top OnlyFans earners, is OnlyFans easy work?, influencers struggling to make money, the rise in popularity of OnlyFans, 20 girls 1 rapper, pop the balloon, promo opportunities, what...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with finding new events in the city, sex dreams, high levels of stress, and another quarter life crisis Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the pursuit of beauty and the paradox of effortlessness. We’re talking: beauty sickness, the double-bind of beauty, our early memories of beauty, are men beautiful?, beauty vs comfort, pretty privilege, the art of beauty, is beauty anti-feminist?, white-washed beauty standards, how to engage in beauty in a healthy...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with F.D Signifier’s video essays, How I Met Your Mother, free online concerts, a failed night out, and having a hard time sleeping. . Next, we dive into this week’s topic: trauma dumping and oversharing as entertainment. We’re talking: The gendered and internet history of “oversharing”, oversharing memes, social media as a third space, finstas, the right to tell your story, storytelling as an art form, profiting off of oversharing/ trauma dumping, Reesa...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with money trees exploding, meeting Drew Afualo, projectile vomiting on my bathroom floor, and breaking someone’s window. . Next, we dive into this week’s topic: dating paranoia content. We’re talking: Ellen Degeneres, coming out back in the day, are there more queer women now than ever?, lesbian icons, Jojo Siwa, Shea Mitchell, Billie Eilish, coming out casually, being outed, Becca Moore and Shannon Beveridge, Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko, hard launches...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with people testing me, Wednesday, Wicked, good conversations, Brooke Schofield and Clinton Kane, and decision-making paralysis. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: dating paranoia content. We’re talking: Relationship paranoia, trust issues, the orange peel theory, the bird test, the strawberry test, the invisible string theory, If he wanted to he would, tiktok relationship theories and tests, the bar is on the floor culture, embarrassing your partner...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with a new tattoo, Billie Eilish, Bear, and allergic reactions. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: political apathy and dating someone with different political views than your own, is it possible? We’re talking: Mistaking limerence for love, parasocial relationships, projecting onto other people, what limerence fills in your life, queer yearning, sapphic limerence, unrequited love, crushes on straight people, falling for someone before you know that...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new tattoos, Billie Eilish, social activities, Ice Spice, Central Lee, Madeline Argy, and body insecurities. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: body insecurities and sex. We’re talking: Fat shaming, being more than our bodies, bullying from doctors, internalized body shame, body dysmorphia, body shaming, pre-meet-up anxiety, bush vs bald, smells, stomach rolls, period sex, body shaming from a partner, body insecurity disclosures, insecurities about...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with visiting family on the East Coast, Becca Moore and Shannon Beveridge, my family making comments about my body, and breaking my favorite boots. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: political apathy and dating someone with different political views than your own, is it possible? We’re talking: What is political apathy and why are we experiencing it? Is political apathy a dating dealbreaker? How do we judge people on dating apps based on political...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with wet dreams, the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders, T breaks, coochie hair, and articles behind paywalls, Next, we dive into this week’s topic: boyfriends being embarrassing and the female audience. We’re talking: Loving men in private, the anxiety of hard launching a relationship, when being cheated on is embarrassing, men going on podcasts, keke palmer, simone biles, halle bailey, jalen & monet, It girls, the female audience, girls girl culture, dump...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being in love with flirting with ai, chapped lips, and crying in the shower. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: sex-positive feminism We’re talking: Rethinking sex positivity, reflecting on our sexual histories, critiques of sex-positive feminism, misconceptions about sex-positive feminism, the gaps between ideals and reality, slut shaming, the pressure to be more promiscuous, codes of how to act around men passed down by other women, prioritizing...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being in love with myself, new music, playing games with my roommate, Brat by Charlie XCX, expensive health insurance, and being out of my anti-depressants  Next, we dive into this week’s topic: AI and our love lives. We’re talking: Using AI to flirt better, the ethics of AI chatbots, sexting your fav porn star’s AI, AI taking on a mind of its own, content creators using AI to make money off of their image, the problem with an “ideal” partner, AI love...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with interesting characters, much-needed massages, dating app fatigue, and high school bullies hitting me up. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: is Gen-z losing their identity to TikTok aesthetics trends? We’re talking: cultural appropriation, the clean girl trend, sad girls, the mob wife trend, glorifying sadness,/that girl trend, morning routine videos, the unreachable bar for women, mono-cultures, tiktok good communities, how marketing influences...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with going out, operation get my life together, people moving slow, and a dry sex drive. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: domming! Thank you to David Teitelbaum of Rose in Good Faith and Laurel Bath House for coming on the show! Follow @david_rigf @roseingoodfaith @laurelbathhouse We interviewed David to learn about his experiences as a trained dom and we’re answering the big questions: Why do people become doms? How do you become a dom? How does BDSM...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with bleach blonde bad built butch body, Jenn McAllister, Diddy and Cassie, and new music from delusional crushes. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the infamous anti-celibacy Bumble marketing campaign and the shady business and marketing of dating apps. Was Bumble ever really a feminist dating app? What was Bumble thinking with their rebrand? Why are dating apps in their flop era? Should we all delete the apps and get outside? We’re talking: the...