Fiji and Autumn check in this week with going out, operation get my life together, people moving slow, and a dry sex drive. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: domming! Thank you to David Teitelbaum of Rose in Good Faith and Laurel Bath House for coming on the show! Follow @david_rigf @roseingoodfaith @laurelbathhouse We interviewed David to learn about his experiences as a trained dom and we’re answering the big questions: Why do people become doms? How do you become a dom? How does BDSM connect to trauma? And are subs really lazy? We’re talking: Obedient subs vs bratty subs, why people become doms, the personality traits of doms, common misconceptions about doms, BDSM and histories of SA or abuse, healing from sexual trauma with a dom, lack of trust in your sex life, rewiring sexual trauma, crying after orgasms, 50 Shades of Grey, the importance of communication in dom/ sub relationships, why “I don’t know” is the scariest place to be, uncomfortable pre-sex conversations, what to call your dom, spicy dom acts, roleplay, leaning in and playing the part, the importance of aftercare and before care, gender dynamics in domming and men’s hidden hostility toward’s women, the difference between porn and in-person BDSM, navigating sex parties with your partner, ethical non-monagamy, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  Intro 00:00:00 -  00:01:53 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:01:53 - 00:06:33 What is a Dom: What are their roles in a bdsm space and what are their personality traits? 00:06:33 - 00:10:33 How common is dom/sub sex? And our Dom/sub experiences 00:10:33 - 00:14:18 Are subs lazy? 00:14:18 - 00:18:17 Why do people become doms and dommes? 00:18:17 - 00:43:27  What goes on during dom training? 00:43:27 - 00:47:30 How can dom/sub relationships be healing? 00:47:30 - 00:57:16 David’s 4 rules of domming and the importance of communication 00:57:16 - 01:11:23 Gender dynamics in domming and men’s hidden hostility toward’s women/ Why bdsm is an escape from everyday stressors for many people 01:11:23 - 01:29:11 Types of doms and dom acts 01:29:11 - 01:36:13 All about sex parties and navigating them with a partner 01:36:13 - 01:53:42 The importance of checking in when domming 01:53:42 - 01:59:55 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about domming (wrap up) 01:59:55 - 02:09:01 Sources: https://www.regain.us/advice/general/what-does-being-a-dom-mean-in-bdsm/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRKMdf9w/  https://kinkyevents.co.uk/how-to-be-a-dom-a-complete-guide/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/avae8z/what-its-like-being-a-professional-male-dom-for-women https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/dom-and-sub-relationships https://badgirlsbible.com/types-of-doms follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: [email protected]  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support