Fiji and Autumn check in this week with support for college protests, new books, Baby Reindeer developments, and texting my ex. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: men have feelings but do we REALLY care? Do women really want men to open up? Why do men feel like they need to hide their feelings to be strong? Do women use men’s vulnerability against them? Do men have healthy coping mechanisms? Why is this a women’s issue too? We’re talking: Men’s mental health, women glorifying men’s...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with NDAs, my birthday, being broke, and getting sick from stress. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: comphet TikTok discourse. Are you really bi or just comphet? Why do women yearn for a woman while dating a man? How common is comphet? Who experiences comphet? What are the causes of compulsory heterosexuality? Is comphet over-exaggerated? We’re talking: The Lesbian Master Doc, Hayley Kiyoko, queer culture on Tumblr, coming out, growing up queer, Blue is...

**Trigger warning for SA, r*pe, & DA***  Fiji and Autumn check in this week with learning how to clap my ass, my mom visiting me, angry girlfriend AI to teach men empathy, and toxic moms on TikTok. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: are we dating the same guy facebook groups, loyalty testing, internet sleuths, and the ethics of doxing Who’s scarier a man or a bear? Is all gossip feminist? Do we need review sites for dating apps? What counts as dating red flags? Is it really...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with good weather, Alabama rush content rabbit holes, PTSD flare ups, and time moving too fast. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the stripper to celibacy pipeline. Why are many strippers and sex workers choosing to be celibate? We’re sharing our experiences and stories from current strippers and sex workers. We’re talking: Getting into stripping early, mental health issues, substance abuse, the urge to go back after you quit, bad experiences with men...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with having great friends, Quiet on Set and the backlash, Baby Reindeer, not being able to work out, and new jobs taking over my life. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: yearning. Why is yearning trending so much online? What are we all yearning for? Can the yearning ever be satisfied? We’re talking: Saltburn, One Day, office core, the yearning emoji, yearning and rotting, rom-coms, the connection between yearning and art, wholesomeness, romanticism,...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new Vonsway Hendrix, back on dating apps, broken limbs, surgery, and duality. **Shop Vonsway Hendrix Streetwear: https://www.instagram.com/vonsway_hendrix/ ** Next, we dive into this week’s topic: losing yourself in a relationship. relationship you vs single you, why do we like certain versions better? is it normal to lose your identity in a relationship?  what does it mean to give 100%? how much should you sacrifice in a relationship? when are you...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with good sex, my sister visiting, mansplaining, and old bosses reaching out inappropriately. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: Tantric Sex. What is tantric sex? What are the goals of tantric sex? Who should you have tantric sex with? Is tantric sex cringey or sexy? Is our generation afraid of sensual sex? We’re talking: Masturbating to meditations, earth-shattering orgasms, sex on acid, shrooms, or Molly, the awkwardness of sensual sex,...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with the Yeezy WET tank, new Vonsway Hendrix👀, how expensive it is to be a creator, and a lacking sex life. ***Shop Vonsway Hendrix Streetwear https://www.instagram.com/vonsway_hendrix/ *** Next, we dive into this week’s topic: Clinginess. Why are people clingy? Is clinginess romanticized online? Is it toxic? Do women want clingy partners? How do you become less clingy? How can you cope with a clingy partner? We’re talking: attachment theory, clingy...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with our 50th EPISODE and new look!!!, burnout from work, and insomnia. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the dating emotionally unavailable men to sprinkle sprinkle pipeline, Shera Seven, and Bell Hook’s The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love. What do women care about more in a relationship with a man: his ability to emotionally open up and connect or his ability to provide? Why are women demanding that men pay more? Why can’t men open up...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being delusional about reaching our goals, manifesting my dream life, broken nails, haters in our comment section, and making unrealistic to-do lists. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: all things period sex. Why is period sex taboo? Can you get soul ties from period sex? How does society disconnect us from our sacred female energy? Do boys need period sex education? We’re talking: The benefits of period sex, the side effects of period sex, shower...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with reading a book, back with my man, puzzles, love is blind, the bachelor, hating ass bitches, internet death threats, crying in public, and hot men in the elevator. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: weaponized incompetence. Is weaponized incompetence intentional? Are the TikTok trends really funny? Do moms enable their sons to be man children? How do we get men to learn how to care for their own children??? How do women contribute to the...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with karaoke birthday parties, career changes, drunk calls, and being flakey.  Next, we dive into this week’s topic: should you f**k on the first date?  Does f*****g first lose sexual tension? Does it cloud your mind? Why do people ghost after hooking up? Why do men insist on holding it against us for hooking up on the first date? We’re talking: first hook up red flags, developing feelings from an orgasm, ghosting, oxytocin, good sex vs bad sex, the...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with healing with showers, child star documentaries, giving someone new a chance, and depressive behaviors. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the male loneliness epidemic. The men are sad and we’re here to talk about it. (Old us is shocked and probably appalled.) What does it mean to be a man? Why are men so lonely right now? Should women really care if men are lonely? Why it’s difficult to be friends with men? We’re talking: how young boys are taught...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being good & staying in, Griselda, The Hand Maid’s Tale, dance classes with delusional crushes, justice for Mariah the Scientist and Young Thug, and bad dreams about old jobs. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: prison baes, prison wife TikTok and dating someone with a record. Shoutout to a listener who is currently serving time for this episode recommendation! Would you stay with someone if they got locked up? What types of crimes would you...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with friends visiting from out of town, being a wing woman, not knowing what we want, and lacking new music. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: jealousy in open relationships. Are non-monogamous couples less jealous than monogamous couples? Does jealousy come from insecurity? Is don't ask don't tell the way to go? How should you cope with your jealousy? We’re talking: types of open relationships, the Roman Empire, being unsure if you’re doing poly...

***Trigger Warning*** ****We talk about r*pe, sexual assault, domestic violence, and kidnapping in this episode. Please don't listen if these are your triggers.**** Fiji and Autumn check in this week with paying off debt, new fantasies, being annoyed with therapy, and sexist clients. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: CNC aka consensual non-consent kinks. What is CNC? How common is it? Are you messed up for liking this kink or is there a stigma? We’re talking: our CNC experiences, CNC...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new meds, unemployment, dance studios, the mob wife trend, and having great women in our lives. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: expectations vs standards when it comes to dating. Do you need to have high standards to protect yourself? Why are high standards so trendy right now? Can having no expectations actually help your relationship? Why do expectations often ruin relationships? We’re talking: the online gender wars, people being sick of...

Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off! https://mochimelt.com/ Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new shows, new jobs, migraines, guys that just got out of jail, and ghosting decent men. Next, we dive into the manosphere where nonchalant men can’t express themselves to save their lives, and lover boys are seen as cucks for supporting women. We’ve talked about it before but we. are. in. a. sassy. man. apocalypse. and we want...

Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* ⁠https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new jobs, mini golf pros, hot dads, doctors appointments, and incels hating on YouTube. Next, we dive into girl tiktok where lover girls are tired of the streets and everyone wants to give you tips on how to be more mysterious in your dating life. We’re talking: the stereotypes of the lover girl and mysterious girl...

Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* ⁠https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with fantasies, building a better relationship with my dad, embarrassing myself while drunk and hitting on a gay guy, and ghosting my therapist. We're trying to answer the big questions: Who cheats more, men or women? What qualifies as cheating? What's worse: emotional cheating and physical cheating? Does cheating...

Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* ⁠https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Brittany Spears' book, Tate McRae, dating apps, and living far away from friends. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: Heteropessimism and the online gender war. Do men hate women? Do women hate men? Are we just hurt? How much of it is humor vs seriousness? How do social media algorithms give us tunnel...

Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* ⁠https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with ending my situationship (again), someone’s man in my DMs, alone for the holidays, and throwing tantrums because my exes moved on. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: "I'm coming to you as a woman" DMs and girl code. We're talking should you ever tell the girlfriend if you're the other woman?, the...

**This episode is sponsored by Mochi Melt! Shop their Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!*** https://mochimelt.com/collections/water-based-lubricants  Fiji and Autumn check in this week with getting back with my situationship, having solid women in your life, transport by foot, and looking for better places to go out. . Next, they break down this episode's main topic: oral sex tips! The positive impacts of oral sex on health and relationships,...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with the high off moving on, weed breaks, lacking Thanksgiving plans, and money problems. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: the viral list of places NOT to take a woman on the first date. How serious should we be taking first dates?  We’re talking bad first dates, good first dates, is The Cheesecake Factory bad?, relationship dates vs first dates, things not eat on a first date, coffee dates, the bird test, what makes a first date good,...

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with crushes on the dentist, going out for Halloween, and terminating a situationship. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: the twitter thread “That phase when you start hating your gf is crazy😭.” We’re going in on the reply section and discussing the backlash from women on TikTok: Why don’t men just break up with their girlfriends? What do men talk about with their homeboys? Is what they’re saying valid?  Do men not know how to love...