Fiji and Autumn check in this week with karaoke birthday parties, career changes, drunk calls, and being flakey.  Next, we dive into this week’s topic: should you f**k on the first date?  Does f*****g first lose sexual tension? Does it cloud your mind? Why do people ghost after hooking up? Why do men insist on holding it against us for hooking up on the first date? We’re talking: first hook up red flags, developing feelings from an orgasm, ghosting, oxytocin, good sex vs bad sex, the stigma around f*****g first, people who wait until marriage to have sex, emotional connections vs physical connections, withholding sex to manipulate men, why do men think women are hoes for f*****g first, sexual compatibility, dick sizes, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  Intro: 00:00:00 - 00:01:52 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week: 00:01:52 - 00:06:54 Why people say you shouldn’t f**k on the first date: 00:06:54 - 00:13:05 Who hooks up first vs getting to know someone first by gender: 00:13:05 - 00:19:48 Why people think you should f**k first: 00:19:48 - 00:24:47 The two schools of thought on f*****g first: 00:24:47 - 00:30:52 Does hooking up first lose all sexual tension? 00:30:52 - 00:32:59 What does f*****g on the first date say about you as a woman? 00:32:59 - 00:37:32 Are you able to think clearly emotionally when you f**k first? 00:37:32 - 00:43:28 Are people more likely to stay or ghost. after f*****g first? 00:43:28 - 00:46:27 Is it possible to be “bad” at sex? 00:46:27 - 00:52:01 Does getting to know each other first make the relationship last longer? 00:52:01 - 00:56:28 Listener Stories 00:56:28 - 01:07:47 Wrap Up (Wet, Dry, Confused) 01:07:47 - 01:20:17:11 Sources: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a21097210/men-sex-on-the-first-date/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8cXC7QH/  https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8cXV54H/  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6OxFPw7vmQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4jzyB4ZB8o follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: [email protected]  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy ---  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support