***Trigger Warning*** ****We talk about r*pe, sexual assault, domestic violence, and kidnapping in this episode. Please don't listen if these are your triggers.**** Fiji and Autumn check in this week with paying off debt, new fantasies, being annoyed with therapy, and sexist clients. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: CNC aka consensual non-consent kinks. What is CNC? How common is it? Are you messed up for liking this kink or is there a stigma? We’re talking: our CNC experiences, CNC roleplay, sexual assault survivors using CNC for healing, rewiring your brain from trauma, feeling shame for liking the kink, how CNC can be detrimental, miscommunications during kink play, safe words, sleeping kinks, kidnapping kinks, sex education, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=consent%20non%20consent https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/comments/m2ax4g/im_a_survivor_who_is_into_cnc_i_have_mixed/ https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/how-kink-can-be-used-to-heal-from-sexual-trauma#:~:text=REWIRING%20TRAUMA,%E2%80%9C%5Bbuild%5D%20new%20positive%E2%80%A6 https://www.choosingtherapy.com/consensual-non-consent/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIrm6RbDBJQ https://www.tiktok.com/@aussarah/video/7201629633412959490 https://www.choosingtherapy.com/sexual-shame/ https://www.choosingtherapy.com/sex-therapy/ https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-consensual-non-consent https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2016.1139034 https://www.vice.com/en/article/m7vyk4/consensual-non-consent-meaning https://domsubliving.com/5-things-about-consensual-non-consent/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: [email protected] A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support