Fiji and Autumn check in this week with NDAs, my birthday, being broke, and getting sick from stress. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: comphet TikTok discourse. Are you really bi or just comphet? Why do women yearn for a woman while dating a man? How common is comphet? Who experiences comphet? What are the causes of compulsory heterosexuality? Is comphet over-exaggerated? We’re talking: The Lesbian Master Doc, Hayley Kiyoko, queer culture on Tumblr, coming out, growing up queer, Blue is the Warmest Color, discovering lesbian love, Carol, Good Luck Babe by Chappell Roan and the TikTok discourse, the categories of bisexuals, cis heterosexual men not understanding your experience, lacking a queer community, and losing your queer identity when you’re dating a man, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:24 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:24 - 00:08:13 What is comphet? 00:08:13 - 00:12:22 The Lesbian Master Doc & Queer Culture on Tumblr 00:12:22 - 00:19:44  How common is comphet and what are the causes of compulsory heterosexuality 00:19:44 - 00:25:05 Good Luck Babe by Chappelle Roan and the TikTok discourse 00:25:05 - 00:33:05 Comphet bisexual experiences on Reddit: am I actually attracted to men or just lesbian? 00:33:05 - 00:37:56 Are we attracted to men or do we just desire men to be attracted to us 00:37:56 - 00:42:44 Will bi girls who end up with men always yearn for women? 00:42:44 - 00:45:43 The categories of bisexuals 00:45:43 - 00:48:16 Cis heterosexual men don’t understand your experience 00:48:16 - 01:05:13 Why do women yearn for a woman while dating a man? 01:05:13 - 01:09:29 Lacking a queer community and feeling your queer identity when you’re dating a man 01:09:29 - 01:16:36  Who experiences comphet? 01:16:36 - 01:26:21 Is comphet over exaggerated? 01:26:21 - 01:36:29 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about comphet 01:36:29 - 01:52:24 Sources: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/comphet/ https://affirmativecouch.com/deconstructing-compulsory-heterosexuality-in-psychotherapy/ https://www.ourstreetsnow.org/post/compulsory-heterosexuality-made-me-think-i-was-straight-until-i-was-21 https://www.docdroid.net/N46Ea3o/copy-of-am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc-pdf#page=30 https://coldantlerfarm.substack.com/p/late-bloomer-lets-talk-about-comphet https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL9jSoTV/ https://www.capitalfm.com/news/music/chappell-roan-good-luck-babe-lyrics-meaning/ https://www.reddit.com/r/comphet/comments/l9uurc/comphet_for_bisexuals/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLXq7qqV/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL9jMbQ8/  https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL9GyHYL/  https://www.tiktok.com/@jordan.rand/video/7292788502444379425?_r=1&_t=8mAXRAn0vPe https://www.reddit.com/r/Actuallylesbian/comments/1609ojr/i_feel_like_comphet_is_over_exaggerated/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Actuallylesbian/comments/10o8ovi/this_comphet_and_unattainable_men_thing_has/  follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: [email protected]  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support