Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* ⁠https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Brittany Spears' book, Tate McRae, dating apps, and living far away from friends. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: Heteropessimism and the online gender war. Do men hate women? Do women hate men? Are we just hurt? How much of it is humor vs seriousness? How do social media algorithms give us tunnel vision? How can we all take accountability? We're talking heteropessimism and straight pride, girl TikTok, the manosphere, the Me Too movement, Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard, Meg the Stallion vs Tory Lanez, how our biases and experiences shape our views, the patriarchy, incels, alpha males, femcels, man-haters, domination in sex vs daily life, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: ****Inspo:  @KhadijaMbowe  : the gender wars, are’nt yall tired? 🤨heteropessimism unpacked https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPVHgyzMCBU https://www.britannica.com/topic/Me-Too-movement https://www.vulture.com/article/tory-lanez-megan-thee-stallion-shooting-explainer.html https://www.cnn.com/2023/03/16/us/incel-involuntary-celibate-explained-cec/index.html https://hypebae.com/2022/5/femcels-incels-meaning-celibacy-sex-feminism-misandry https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/celebrities/2023/11/24/adult-survivors-act-diddy-jamie-foxx-sexual-assault-new-york/71693294007/ https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/27/nyregion/adult-survivors-act-lawsuits.html ***We recommend Rehash's podcast for deeper dives into Depp v. Heard and Gymcels! https://open.spotify.com/show/3NiXwyBwwDrKyWW5Zd31uY follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: [email protected] A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support