Fiji and Autumn check in this week with reading a book, back with my man, puzzles, love is blind, the bachelor, hating ass bitches, internet death threats, crying in public, and hot men in the elevator. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: weaponized incompetence. Is weaponized incompetence intentional? Are the TikTok trends really funny? Do moms enable their sons to be man children? How do we get men to learn how to care for their own children??? How do women contribute to the problem? We’re talking: the domestic labor gap, learned helplessness, our family experiences, neglect, grocery shopping, the ketchup on counter challenge, the pads with wings challenge, weaponized incompetence when it comes to childcare, nagging wives, lazy husbands, how this a men’s issue, the importance of being reliable, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  Intro 00:00:00-00:01:50 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:01:50-00:07:43 Defining weaponized incompetence 00:07:43-00:09:31 The history of the concept of weaponized incompetence 00:09:31-00:12:28 The gender gap in understanding weaponized incompetence/ domestic labor 00:12:28 - 00:15:34 Examples of weaponized incompetence Confessions of men who used weaponized incompetence and why they did 00:15:34 - 00:27:24 When is weaponized incompetence funny? 00:27:24 - 00:30:26 The viral ketchup on counter challenge 00:30:26- 00:32:15 The viral pads with wings challenge 00:32:15 - 00:37:01 Weaponized incompetence with childcare 00:37:01-00:42:16 The burden weaponized incompetence puts on women 00:42:16 - 00:48:10 How weaponized incompetence is a lack of respect for your partner 00:48:10 - 00:54:35 The domestic labor imbalance 00:54:35 - 00:58:54 Do men get lazier as relationships go on? 00:58:54 - 01:02:29 Independent women and why it’s important for men to be reliable 01:02:29 - 01:08:00 How to unlearn weaponized incompetence in your relationships 01:08:00 - 01:10:35 Other forms of weaponized incompetence 01:10:35 - 01:13:42 Listener stories 01:13:42 -01:19:47 What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic (wrap up) 01:19:47 - 01:29:36 Sources: https://www.care.com/c/what-is-weaponized-incompetence/  https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/what-is-weaponised-incompetence-personal-essay https://www.tiktok.com/@dvnielbon/video/7320620396275830021?_r=1&_t=8k3TQSUtWzz https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8EbMaVk/  https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8EbNVdN/  https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8EbmgK2/  https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8KwX5Q3/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8Kw3sCx/ https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/what-is-weaponised-incompetence-personal-essay https://www.huffpost.com/entry/weaponized-incompetence-women_l_61e71983e4b0d8b665717814 https://www.pewresearch.org/ https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2023/09/18/2-ways-weaponized-incompetence-might-be-hurting-your-relationship/?sh=6a8c5dcb5852 https://www.care.com/c/what-is-weaponized-incompetence/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT83KFK8A/  https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/what-is-weaponised-incompetence-personal-essay https://www.huffpost.com/entry/weaponized-incompetence-women_l_61e71983e4b0d8b665717814 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: [email protected]  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support