Fiji and Autumn check in this week with good weather, Alabama rush content rabbit holes, PTSD flare ups, and time moving too fast.
Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the stripper to celibacy pipeline.
Why are many strippers and sex workers choosing to be celibate? We’re sharing our experiences and stories from current strippers and sex workers.
We’re talking: Getting into stripping early, mental health issues, substance abuse, the urge to go back after you quit, bad experiences with men at the strip club vs in dating, the empowering side of stripping, recreational sex vs sex work, developing kinks from the strip club, stripping while in a relationship, shame about pleasure in the strip club, hating men because of the club, wanting to have a deeper connection during sex, slut shaming from women, strippers who are virgins, lower sex drives, the difficulties around dating men in the real world, the celibacy bubble, listener stories, and more!👀
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Creator Spotlight: Shaun P
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Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:12
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:12 - 00:07:18
Setting the scene 00:07:18 - 00:09:24
Our experiences with stripping and sex work 00:09:24 - 00:15:13
Bad experiences with men at the strip club vs in dating, substance abuse, and recreational sex 00:15:13 - 00:24:29
Why we practiced celibacy after stripping 00:24:29 - 00:29:27
Stripper stories: Finding the balance between recreational and professional sex 00:29:27 - 00:44:23
Reddit threads on stripper celibacy journeys: celibate to avoid falling in love with every man I meet 00:44:23 - 00:48:55
R/stripping and celibacy: I want to protect myself and have a deeper connection 00:48:55 - 00:51:01
Celibate because no one deserves it unless they’re paying 00:51:01 - 00:56:55
Stripper stories: Being used by men more in the real world vs the strip club 00:56:55 - 01:05:03
Artist Spotlight: Shaun P 01:05:03 - 01:07:29
Stripper story: healing from slut shaming and addiction with celibacy 01:07:29 - 01:17:32
Stripper stories: selling my virginity, preferring sex with women, and lower sex drives, and relationships with clients 01:17:32 - 01:32:24
Celibacy trending in Gen-Z 01:32:24 - 01:34:04
What happens when you’re celibate for too long 01:34:04 - 01:39:49
An argument against celibacy 01:39:49 - 01:46:24
What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the stripper to celibacy pipeline 01:46:24 - 01:56:52
Sources:
https://www.thestranger.com/sex/2018/04/25/26093525/on-sexual-deprivation-sex-workers-incels-and-violence
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/sex-worker-what-its-like-to-date_n_5dd6d273e4b0e29d728105d8
https://www.reddit.com/r/stripper/comments/10asfdk/really_curious_about_how_many_other_strippers_are
https://www.reddit.com/r/stripper/comments/170erwg/anyone_else_pretty_much_celibate/
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5Mvu4KAjrY/
https://nypost.com/2023/03/30/heres-why-im-not-interested-in-the-new-celibacy-trend/
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