**Trigger warning for SA, r*pe, & DA***  Fiji and Autumn check in this week with learning how to clap my ass, my mom visiting me, angry girlfriend AI to teach men empathy, and toxic moms on TikTok. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: are we dating the same guy facebook groups, loyalty testing, internet sleuths, and the ethics of doxing Who’s scarier a man or a bear? Is all gossip feminist? Do we need review sites for dating apps? What counts as dating red flags? Is it really embarrassing if your man cheats on you? Have we taken this all a bit too far? We’re talking: internet stalking your dates pre-meet up, how to stay safe while dating, the me too movement, whisper networks, the different types of posts in are we dating the same guy Facebook groups, are we dating the same guy LA and Arizona lawsuits, defamation cases, Couch Guy, West Elm Caleb, Baby Reindeer, true crime tiktok, doxing, loyalty testing tiktok, dating app profile reviews, the problem with internet activism, the dangers of echo chambers, mass dating paranoia, hating men, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:38 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:38 - 00:08:49 How much do people sleuth before they go on a first date? 00:08:49 - 00:12:32 Women are afraid of men 00:12:32 - 00:15:08 The Me Too Movement and whisper networks 00:15:08 - 00:26:30 Is gossip feminist? 00:26:30 - 00:29:51 What are the are we dating the same guy Facebook groups? 00:29:51 - 00:30:34 Internet sleuths on TikTok 00:30:34 - 00:37:29 Why do people join these Facebook groups? 00:37:29 - 00:40:29 The different types of posts in are we dating the same guy Facebook groups 00:40:29 - 00:46:10 Loyalty testing tiktok 00:46:10 - 00:53:31 Do we need the are we dating the same guy Facebook groups? 00:53:31 - 00:55:43 the defamation lawsuit against 50 women from are we dating the same guy LA 00:55:43 - 01:07:14 Are these Facebook groups defamation? 01:07:14 - 01:10:41 West Elm Caleb: do we need review sites for dating apps? Are we in a doxing crisis? 01:10:41 - 01:23:16 Couch guy, internet sleuths, and more doxing 01:23:16 - 01:32:56 Women dominated platforms and echo chambers on the internet 01:32:56 - 01:39:55 Who should we really be scared of? 01:39:55 - 01:42:09 Would this be okay if men did the same thing? And are we talking the man hate too far? 01:42:09 - 01:51:15 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 01:51:15 - 02:02:22 Sources:https://www.tiktok.com/@screenshothq/video/7356208240008498465?_r=1&_t=8lr3VckKxlT https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whisper_network  https://journals.openedition.org/ejas/16587 https://youtu.be/mZaWnQ9HXZA?si=WYUrl2ZSFtYYB5schttps://www.glamour.com/story/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-facebook-groupshttps://www.latimes.com/california/story/2024-04-09/dating-the-same-guy-defamation-lawsuithttps://youtu.be/UHvaVEsfaz8?si=oOWkRVWZM-N91ia8 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13301999/The-bachelor-sued-50-women-calling-bad-date-turned-one-homes-didnt-address-discovered-online-group-exposed-him.htmlhttps://www.npr.org/2024/03/11/1237398097/facebook-groups-where-women-discuss-dating-topics-are-under-fire-in-a-lawsuithttps://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/caleb-west-elm-dating-saga-1288386/https://www.tiktok.com/@wabbyrose/video/7348952476973878571?q=are%20we%20dating%20the%20same%20guy&t=1714150859031https://www.tiktok.com/@wabbyrose/video/7348952476973878571?q=are%20we%20dating%20the%20same%20guy&t=1714150859031  follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: [email protected]  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send i