Jealousy in open relationships: are we neurotic or is monogamy a cult?
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Fiji and Autumn check in this week with friends visiting from out of town, being a wing woman, not knowing what we want, and lacking new music. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: jealousy in open relationships. Are non-monogamous couples less jealous than monogamous couples? Does jealousy come from insecurity? Is don't ask don't tell the way to go? How should you cope with your jealousy? We’re talking: types of open relationships, the Roman Empire, being unsure if you’re doing poly right, the various emotions of jealousy, addressing jealousy in open relationships, thought work, neuroticism, Jealousy in open relationships vs monogamous relationships, our bad jealousy experiences, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Intro 00:00:00-00:01:46 What has us wet and dry this week 00:01:46- 00:09:53 Types of jealous 00:09:53 - 00:12:15 Types of open relationships 00:12:15 - 00:16:53 History of non-monogamy 00:16:53- 00:22:19 How common are open relationships? 00:22:19 - 00:24:54 The stigma of being jealous in open relationships/ Are jealousy and insecurity the same thing? 00:24:54 - 00:30:31 Is jealousy in open relationships normal? 00:30:31 - 00:35:33 Jealousy in open relationships vs monogamous relationships (our experiences, communication, and boundaries) 00:35:33 - 00:50:36 Why do people get jealous in open relationships? 00:50:36 - 00:54:48 Defining your open relationship boundaries to 00:54:48 - 01:00:53 How to cope with your jealousy 01:00:53 - 01:03:33 Positive jealousy vs negative jealousy 01:03:33 - 01:11:18 Where does jealousy come from and is it possible to unlearn it? 01:11:18 - 01:24:37 Listener stories 01:24:37 -01:32:43 Wrap-Up/ Take Aways (Wet, Dry, Confused) 01:32:43- 01:44:48 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_GR1zdmHTw  @Atouchofflavor  https://www.gofreddie.com/magazine/relationships-101-14-open-relationship-types https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VcG1_XmrtD8&list=PLQMGbIXQwwbRkXyipDmYBLa7nIeCxdMey&index=11 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50uxWo7KMgI @conorandbrittany  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxPkhRMTYagpolyamfam  @polyamfam  https://polylife.com.au/unlearning-jealousy-2/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/close-encounters/201410/whats-really-behind-jealousy-and-what-do-about-it follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: [email protected] A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support
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