Lou recaps a compelling text from the podcast hotline, leading to a candid discussion about relationship expectations, accountability, and the hope for partner change. Lou shares his struggle with naming his feelings and reflects on a challenging situation that left his girlfriend heartbroken and its impact on him. Lou revisits childhood memories from Little Louie to explore why vengeance has been a key motivation for him. Learn about the surprising source of comfort Lou sought as a child and its influence on his emotional journey. Support the podcast!!!... Patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod Merch available at secondhandtherapypod.com