Episodes
You're getting better with age and so should your love life!  That's why Dr. S and Dr. Shyama, board certified ob-gyn, tell you everything you need to know about lube, hormones, pelvic floor therapy, and prescriptions to make sex better during perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause!  Press play now to get all your questions answered, including: ·      What lube is best for perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause? ·      Do you know there are TWO prescription medications for low...
Published 10/15/24
Can your horoscope help with your horniness? In today's episode, Dr. Sonjia chats with Relationship Expert and Love Astrologer Bethany Nicole about how our astrology can lead us to the love life we desire! Together, they dive deep into sign compatibility, love languages, and the power of forgiveness. Thought about checking your horoscope lately? Then you'll want to press play now!  Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your questions...
Published 12/22/23
Successful women know exactly how to get what they want. They've manifested every achievement through hard work, planning, and a diligent attitude. So, why doesn't work when it comes to finding love? In today's episode, Dr. Sonjia meets with Love Coach and Healer Carisa Montooth for her perspective on finding The One after 40. Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your questions answered on the show! Need more love coaching? Head...
Published 11/03/23
Sexual Wellness Expert Susan Bratton is back and she's giving us the 411 on how to achieve your ultimate orgasmic potential after 40! We're talking about tools and toys for every budget, body, and relationship status – we all deserve satisfying sex! You don't want to miss this information, so press play now! Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your questions answered on the show! Want more Susan? Check out BetterLover.com to...
Published 10/20/23
Is your sex life dying with age? And is there anything you can do to stop it? In today's show, Dr. Sonjia meets with biohacker Susan Bratton to learn everything you need to know about resurrecting your aging sexuality! She gave us all the nitty gritty details – so much that we had to split this show into two parts! We're talking about ways to extend your sensual lifespan in this episode, so go ahead and press play now! Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected]...
Published 10/06/23
Confident women deserve love too! Now more than ever, women are upapologetically embracing their Empowerment Era. But is it possbie for successful, independent women to find equally confident and supportive men? Today's guest says yes – and we should settle for nothing less! In this episode, your favorite sex educator chats with sensuality educator and relationship coach Ken Blackman. As an expert in intimate coupledom, he has helped countless men and women discover what it truly means to be...
Published 09/23/23
The sex situation we're getting into today is all about reimagining what it means ot be authentically masculine – especially in the face of a sexually-empowered and non-monogamous woman! After diving into a very public open relationship, today's guest was forced to reconsider his ideals on relationships, female sexuality, and his own masculinity. From sex parties to self-acceptance, this story is sure to leave you questioning your own thoughts on love and gender roles. Trust us – press play...
Published 09/08/23
It’s time to invest in a different type of self-love below the belt.  In today’s show, Dr. Sonjia dives deep into the world of men’s hygiene with Derm Dude Founder and “Chief Dude Office”, Drew Plotkin. Derm Dude has seen viral success in the men’s grooming industry and for good reason! Press play now to hear your favorite sexologist explain why. Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your questions answered on the show! Looking for...
Published 08/25/23
Did you know up to half of women having sex aren't having orgasms? As Dr. Sonjia says, "That's like packing your bags and going to the airport only to not get on the plane!" Delayed or inhibited orgasms are treated as a serious medical concern for men, and women with anorgasmia deserve the same attention too. To help us bridge the gap in female sexual pleasure is Suzanne Mulvehill, a Clinical Sexologist/Orgasmologist and the Executive Director of the Female Orgasm Research Institute. Press...
Published 08/05/23
You're deeply, madly in love and couldn't possibly imagine spending your life with anyone else...but you also want to have sex with other people. It's monogamish. So, is it possible to share a committed relationship and also share other sexual partners? In todays's show, sexuality superstar Marla Stewart helps us breakdown the idea of a traditional marriage. Ready to redefine matrimony? Press play now! Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance...
Published 07/21/23
Don't hate the player, boo! The sex situation we're getting into today is all about non-monagomous women – 'cause girls is players too! In this episode, Dr. Sonjia and the Sensual Seductress, Dragonness, get down to the nitty gritty on the rising rates of non-monagomy. So, how do you go about establishing this type of relationship? Should you be fully transparent, or  is it possible to overshare? Get these answers and so much more by pressing play now! Have a sex question you're just burning...
Published 07/07/23
Did you know 96% of men in America are carrying 5 inches or less below the belt? Well, this episode is for the other 4% – and their partners. Yes, overly-endowed dudes need our help too, and Dr. Sonjia is here to answer the call! So, what happens when his size takes sex from pleasurable to painful? And is there a way to overcome this big barrier in the bedroom? Press play now to find out! Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your...
Published 06/23/23
Do you know the difference between sexuality and sensuality? In this episode, Dr. Sonjia chats with professional creative baddie, Sarah Farsh, AKA Dragoness, as she shares how belly dancing helped her connect with her sensuality and unleash her inner goddess. Together, they'll breakdown how to awaken your sensual side and deepen your sexual experiences. You won't want to miss the climax of this episode, so press play now!  Have a sex question you're just burning to ask?...
Published 06/02/23
Is fear keeping you from true sexual fulfilment? In today’s show, Dr. Sonjia kicks off her Yoga for Better Sex series with a deep dive into the Root Chakra. As the first of the seven chakras, our ability to connect to this energy source serves as the root for most sexual functions and dysfunctions. This means reaching your sexual potential can only occur when the root chakra is open and flowing! Whether you're looking to find out what the root chakra is – or you’re someone ready to reactivate...
Published 05/05/23
Did you know scientists have discovered more than 500 different sexual fetishes? In fact, nearly one-third of Americans have a sexual fetish, which means that questionable kink you've been considering might be more common that you think. In today's show, Dr. Sonjia is sharing all the dirty details on some unusual sexual interests. So, just how controversial is your fetish? Press play now to find out! Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to...
Published 04/21/23
Is your man's mini-me really a micro-me? Does your bladder betray you when you're having a good laugh? Or do you just feel like you aren't as tight as you were in your 20s? Whatever the reason, sometimes we just want to tighten up those orgasmic openings! And in today's episode, Dr. S is talking about the latest advances to help tighten up all your orgasmic openings. The best part: no surgery needed! Don't miss out – press play now! Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email...
Published 03/31/23
Did you know more than 70% of women experience dryness down south? As we get older, our estrogen levels change and that natural well of lubrication starts to dry up! Not only can it make sex more painful, it can even cause pain when just sitting down!  The good news is there are so many products that can take your sugar-box from dry and thirsty to wet and gushy! Ever heard of a facial for your vagina? Don’t worry, your favorite sexologist is here to break it all down, so press play now! ...
Published 03/17/23
It’s all in the title for this week’s episode! In today’s show, Dr. S takes you on a journey through all seven chakras. Ancient healing systems and yoga traditions tell us how our body's chakra centers are connected to our physical and spiritual health. So, it only makes sense that our sexual experiences can feel off or unfulfilling when our chakras are blocked or off-balance. Ready to get aligned with this orgasmically enlightening episode? Then press play now! Have a sex question you're...
Published 03/04/23
All my sapiosexuals out there know the data doesn't lie! Countless studies show people with healthy excercise habits have more desire and experience more fulfilling sex. Translation: better orgasms! And yoga is one of the most studied excercise habits shown to help people reach a bigger, more satisafying climax. Wanna know how? Well, press play now to join Dr. S in today's show!  Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your questions...
Published 02/17/23
How do you make sex more intimate? We’re breaking down how plant medicine, Somatics, and intention can lead to more profound, good-feeling, and divine sexual connections. And to help us dive deep into this issue is spiritual guide and somatic healer, Po-Hung Yu. In today’s show, Po and Dr. S share the magic behind Po’s strategy for self-healing, and how this can help women reclaim their bodies and their power. Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the...
Published 02/03/23
Are you loving yourself enough?  Self-love is essential to satisfying sexual relationships with others and your five senses can guide you on a powerful journey of self-lovin!  Today Dr. S explains how loving yourself helps intimate experiences with others explode with ecstasy! Press play to learn self-love strategies that improve the way you feel about yourself and attracts others to your undeniable sexiness!   Like this episode? Awesome! Subscribe below and leave a review! With your help,...
Published 01/13/23
If you're craving more sex over the holidays, you're not alone!  Today Dr. S explains why we want more sex during the holiday season and how to protect ourselves from risking too much to get it.  Press play now to get start your season off the sexiest way possible!  Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your questions answered on the show! Like this episode? Awesome! Subscribe below and leave a review! With your help, we can create...
Published 12/16/22
The sex situation we’re getting into today is all about the devinely orgasmic pleasure of using a little THC below the belt! And who better to spread the gospel truth than a former nun-in-training turned sexpert! In today's show, Dr. Sonjia sits down with Lavinia founder and CEO, Katie Enright, as she shares how she left nunhood and embarked on a journey of sexual empowerment and satisfaction. Wanna know how she went from celibacy to selling THC-infused lubes? Press play now to hear it all...
Published 11/11/22
This episode is all about change and new beginnings! In today's show, we check back in with Evolyn Brooks for Part 2 of her road to recovery. These lessons go way beyond remission, so for anyone who's gone through a major change and come out stronger on the other side – this one's for you. Press play now for the nitty gritty details on feeling yourself and embracing a fresh start.  Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email [email protected] for the chance to have your questions...
Published 10/21/22