As someone raised in the New Age church, I share my experiences and how the emphasis on positivity had unintended consequences on my self-perception. The pressure to conform to the "good girl" narrative led to internal conflicts and stifled authentic expression. We explore the impact of unexamined thoughts on our relationships and the tendency to avoid labeling our partners as dishonest. Discover how unspoken beliefs influence our choices, shaping our lives in ways we may not fully comprehend. The episode unfolds as we confront the blurred lines between being supportive and helpful and unintentionally enabling unhealthy dynamics in our relationships. I share personal insights on redefining what it truly means to be a good person, breaking free from the limiting constraints of the "good girl" archetype. As we navigate the nuanced terrain of self-perception and societal conditioning, you'll gain valuable insights into redefining your own terms of kindness, goodness, and personal worth. Let's challenge the myths and emerge empowered in our relationships. www.sexloveandsoul.com