ARE YOU A DIFFICULT PERSON? or do you find someone you love tough to handle? Oh man, this is a hard pill to swallow when it comes to our self-evaluation and finding out that we are so fixated on what we think is right and hold others victim to our views and opinions. What hurts? When we hear that we are different from the people we love. In this episode, Caroline and I talked about handling the frustrations, learning how to confront and the focus on making relationships healthier!

Is there a RED FLAG that would make you say NO to the most good-looking, perfectly pleasing, well-behaved person? I mean, what dictates the success between two individuals who are in love: Body odor? Wearing sandals? Playing games? In this episode, Caroline and I got sincere with our experience, identifying what should be the actual RED FLAGS and saying YES to the person of your dream without immaturely dismissing them!

Is it right or a mature thing to do when you block someone on social media? You find yourself in an unhealthy competition leading to comparisons, drowning in the toxicity of comments, or someone you know using your story against you without understanding the context. Worst, you might be stalked by a stalker! In this episode, Caroline and I talked about how if we are not aware, we might allow our social media to ruin our day by reacting emotionally and what are some of the essential...

"But I gave her my best! Why is she saying that I don't love her?" Have your heard this before, or maybe you said it yourself? It's frustrating! In this episode, Caroline and I talked about how some couples fall into this argument when all they have to do is learn each other's love language.

"Bro... My girl doesn't let me play games tonight!" Is this phrase familiar to you? Well, I think boyfriends today out there might also tell their partner that gaming night is off! Are games bad? Are games good? So many people rage while they play, is that ok? In this episode, things got open and honest real quick as Caleb Lee and Daren Hee, my 2 favorite top gamers (in my opinion) share their views on healthy and toxic gaming.

Do we ever forget the pain from our past relationship?  It's pretty crazy how people can experience a wave of emotions after ending a relationship years back!  In this episode, Caroline and I got a little vulnerable and talked about the danger of not grieving properly after a breakup and how to deal with those feelings today. 

It is sad to hear that someone ends a relationship due to the "feeling" they have about their partner, that they're "just too nice!"  So, is being too nice a weakness?  In this episode, Caroline and I discuss this peculiar behavior and how it affects the health of relationships! 

Do you remember that defining moment in your teens when you realize your friend (that's a girl) isn't your "bro" buddy? There's something magical about high school romance!  In this episode, I had a fun conversation with Derrick and Julian discussing what it's like in the high school dating scene. They were gracious and kind enough to have me share my thoughts about the thrill, the boundaries, and the beauty of falling in love young. 

Someone somewhere is looking for love, out of the friend zone and to the endzone.  I remember when magazines were my guide in getting the girl. And oh boy! There were good tips, and some were just blatantly wrong.  In this episode, Caroline and I shared our views of how dangerous it is when we are not intentional about the information we are consuming and what it's like to prepare before getting into a relationship. 

We live in a world where the possibility of packing up and leaving is attainable. A new job, new relationship, new opportunities!    The grass is always greener on the other side, as many might say. But what is the fine line between quitting and pressing on?  In this episode, Keith Tay and I talk about the reality and beauty of opportunities and the importance of having the right mindset and attitude wherever we are. 

Frequently I would hear couples talk about how relationships would only work if it's split 50/50. If that's the case, is SACRIFICE necessary?  I tried to find a synonymous, kinder word to describe SACRIFICE.  But no word captures the realness and authenticity when we SACRIFICE for someone we love.  In this episode, Keith Tay and I talk about toxic behaviors and the simple yet forgotten equation of giving and not taking! 

"Hi, babe!" "sayaaaaang!" "LOVE!"  Does it give you goosebumps when you hear couples call each other like this?  I'm sure you've heard it before and or still doing it, which is fine! But some who have been dating for years might say, "wait till the honeymoon period is over, and you won't be this sweet anymore!"  Do you agree?  In this episode, Caroline and I shared our love language and why couples need to be intentionally sweet with one another!  

We can't help to wonder; If there are so many BUTS for a relationship to start, will anyone be dating at all?  We agree that it's crucial to find the right person, and please do not jump into a relationship right away cause we only live life once. But come on! She's a 10, but what if there's a better one out there? Or he's a ten, but he lives far away. Caroline and I had a conversation on the reality of many battling today, "the beauty and curse of choices"! 

BOUNDARIES... Ugh!  Carrying a rebel personality, I find this word restrictive. I tried to find synonymous words to replace and bring comfort, but it still limits and confines!  But I learned over the years a borderless relationship invites chaos and confusion very quickly!  This episode was recorded live at SOUL! Caroline and I shared our troubles and stories of how to set a boundary, not as a label but by being intentional with our words, thoughts, and actions. 

Some might say, falling in love is the easy part!  There is some truth in it. After a couple of months, you discover another side of each other!  Some beautiful, some ugly, and some left you wondering why you dated that person in the first place!  In this episode, Caroline and I shared how your culture and behavior could break or build your relationship.

I believe that building the future starts today!  But I am also left confused and hurt when I hear someone elder say: "all you young people don't know what you're doing!" or "I've eaten more salt than  you've eaten rice."  I am certain that with the experience of the past and the knowledge of the now collaborate, beautiful things take place!  In this episode, Andy Yeoh and I tackled the idea of honoring blindly, and what we should do as adults and youths together in building a sustainable...

Yes! mistakes have been made, and now you are left in this complex situation. Do I forgive? Can I hurt that person back?  They are your best friend. How could they betray you like this?  All of you are in the same community left confused and hurt!  In this episode, Andy Yeoh was honest and raw about his journey as we talked about this sensitive topic. How do we move on? What happens when the blaming is over and what's next? 

The frustration when you check your message, only to find out that person has "seen" the message or blue ticked you!  Is this a new bad habit of the 21st century? We know a couple of relationships that have ended badly.  In this episode, Caroline and I dive into the gray area of the current ethics of messaging and leaving others hanging, who's to blame and how to navigate them. 

Remember when you would pick up the phone, call your friend and not feel bad about it? But today, it feels almost unethical not to message someone before you call.  Has time changed? Are we overthinking?  In this episode, Caroline and I dive into the gray area of the current ethics of messaging or calling inappropriately, who's to blame and how to navigate them. 

We firmly believe that the people around you will define your success or failures!  It is crucial to talk about the kind of relationships we intentionally curate to lessen our hard knocks and pull us out of bad breakups.  In this episode, Keith Tay and I talk about the types of people we need and are we making it easy for people to love us. 

Is there a secret potion I can acquire to be successful in life? Cause I would love to avoid failures! Is there a shortcut?  If only life was that easy... What I've come to learn, is there are rituals we can commit ourselves to, and success will be around the corner!  In this episode, it's so good to have Keith Tay back again, and we dove into a conversation about avoiding shortcuts and mastering our disciplines. 

OH MY! WHY DO I FEEL THIS WAY? Is it disgusting or sinful to feel horny? That's what many would jump to conclusions about but never really converse about why humans have this complex feeling.  In this episode, Caroline and I dive into a conversation about what triggers a person to feel so. With so many questions about this, what we decide to do next is significant! 

Divorce is never fun, period! Especially when we witness a family fall apart.  What can we do? Is there a way out of this pain? Will this happen to me in the future?  In this episode, Caroline and I share the impact it will have on your mental and emotional health. With so many questions to answer, how we choose to respond is crucial to the healing process! 

WHY WILL WHY! Yes, that was my thoughts when I saw what happened. How could Will Smith cross the line?  Was there more than just a slap? Are there consequences that he will face?  Ok, but Chris Rock was wrong, no?  When it comes to a complex situation like this, I just had to get my buddy Bryan Chin into this conversation. In this episode, what we talk about is real and raw, purely our observations on what could have been better. Also, should Chris slap him back?