How do you like it – Tough, or Tender? For many of us, what we truly crave is an exquisite blend of Tough & Tender, Rough & Romantic, Intense & Intimate. Tough & Tender don’t have to be opposite ends of a spectrum or mutually exclusive – we can revel in the delicious combinations of erotic energies, types of touch, relational styles and love languages. True satisfaction can only be found when we get real about the true complexity of what we crave! Thanks to Our Episode Sponsor: Find discounts and offers from all of our sponsors at PleasureMechanics.com/Toolbox Soaking Wet probiotic supplements use the code PLEASURE for 20% off In this episode we unpack how we can each choose to notice and exploreour own relationship to tough and tender erotic play. We look at wherewe may limit our own erotic expression because of our self-permissionand habits, and invite us to notice which end of the range of tough totender erotic play may feel more vulnerable for us to ask for, orexperience. We invite you to explore what specific combinations oftender and tough erotic energies and play we need, want and findappealing. When we understand our own erotic specificity we can moreeasily find a pathway to our sexual satisfaction. As always, we hopethat the conversation on this Speaking of Sex with the PleasureMechanics episode gives you some more vocabulary, inspiration andpermission to keep expanding your erotic possibilities at your ownpace, in your own way. Continue The Conversation With These Speaking of Sex Episodes * Episode 48:Like It Rough * Episode 367: F*****g Vs Making Love