Episodes
Penetration of all kinds can be an intimate and orgasmic part of the erotic experience – but only if everyone involved is ripe and ready for this physical, emotional and relational event. Far too often, lovers rush towards penetration and end up under-stimulated and unsatisfied. In this episode, we explore how to prioritize readiness when it comes to penetration to make it as pleasurable as possible for everyone involved. Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from all of our...
Published 11/19/22
The Netflix series How To Build A Sex Room has a lot of us asking questions about how we can create a more conducive space for our sex life, yet few of us have the time, budget and square footage for a dedicated sex room. But we ALL can cultivate our erotic context with small acts of expression and agency – and on this episode we share how to create space for your erotic expression and exploration, on any budget. Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from all of our podcast...
Published 11/11/22
Dr. Nan Wise joins us to discuss the emerging neuroscience of pleasure, orgasm and emotions. Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from all of our podcast sponsors here Nan Wise, Ph.D. is the author of Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier and More Purpose Filled Life. She is a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University and has a private practice. Connect with her at AskDoctorNan.com Explore your erotic...
Published 11/03/22
It makes sense that many of us have fear, suspicion and doubt around our deepest desires – there are generations of erotic mistrust that we have inherited! So how can you begin to Trust Your Yes, affirm your desires, and go after what you want, in and out of the bedroom? Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from all of our podcast sponsors here In this episode we explore how we can all practice trusting our desires and giving our pleasure more permission....
Published 10/28/22
If you crave rougher sex, but don’t know how to ask for it or suggest it to your partner, this is the podcast episode for you. And if you already love rough play as part of your erotic life, tune in to gather strategies to take your rough sex to the next level. Explore sensation play, roleplaying and more in our online course Kinky Sex Mastery All of our online courses are lifetime access and are backed by a 30 day guarantee, so you can explore risk-free! Thanks...
Published 10/20/22
Electrify your erotic life by exploring sensation play, intentionally intensifying sensations that you already enjoy and boldly exploring new ranges of sensations. From soft and silky to rough and scratchy, there is a huge range of sensations to explore and experiment with. In this free podcast episode we guide you in getting specific about the kinds of sensation you enjoy most and simple strategies to begin intensifying sensation play and welcoming more sensation, pleasure and thrill into...
Published 10/14/22
Tune into this episode to discover how we ALL can tap into the energies and pleasures of erotic roleplaying – even if you never want to put on a sexy costume. Get discounts on LoveHoney, Uberlube and our other sponsors here When many people think about kinky sex, one of the first images to come to mind is erotic role playing. From the classic boss and secretary scenario to Prince Charming and Sleeping Beauty, role playing captures our collective erotic imagination. Yet...
Published 10/07/22
Curious about butt stuff but don’t know how to get started? Love butt stuff and want to level up your knowledge and know-how? Tune in for a wholesome, friendly conversation on butt stuff for all bodies – and how to keep it pleasurable, pain-free and safe. Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from our sponsors here We have been teaching the pleasures of butt play for over 15 years now, and our signature Pleasure Mechanics approach to this most sensitive area has helped tens...
Published 09/23/22
Get discounts on Uberlube and pleasure tools and toys from our sponsors here Getting the touch you want doesn’t have to be a matter of luck – we can all learn how to ask for the touch that we want, give feedback that gets us more of the specific kind of touch we most like, and explore simple touch games to build our capacities to give and receive more satisfying touch. If you are ready to explore the art of erotic touch with us, click here for a preloaded discount on Erotic...
Published 09/08/22
Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from our sponsors here Asking great questions is an essential skill for better sex, deeper intimacy and embracing growth in all arenas of life. But there aren’t a lot of places we learn to ask great questions for better sex – so tune in to discover how to ask great questions to break through to new erotic possibilities, get what you want and be a better lover. Click here for our free resource with over 50 great questions and...
Published 09/01/22
Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from our sponsors here Erotic Dominance and submission can be a potent source of arousal, thrill and connection for us all, if we dare to explore with curiosity and honesty. In this episode we discuss how we can all tap into the fuel of erotic dominance and submission, while expanding and shaking up our preconceptions about erotic power dynamics. Thanks to our episode sponsors for being part of our global team of Pleasure...
Published 08/19/22
If you, like us, are interested in exploring more kink in your life here is a bonus 8 min conversation we recorded all about a big, throbbing package of kinky knowledge and know-how that is available this week only! You know that we love to share quality education on erotic skills and experiences, including the exciting, complex and intense realm of kink. We value and prioritize supporting you in exploring your desires and learning new erotic skills in a safe, supported...
Published 08/18/22
Tune in to hear Pleasure Mechanics Chris and Charlotte share intimate details about opening up their marriage to new erotic connections. This episode is shared from our friends at The Open Nesters Podcast – tune in for more great conversations about opening up long term relationships. Check out all of the generous offers from our podcast sponsors here. Thanks to our episode sponsors for being part of our global team of Pleasure Partners: * Explore an audio library of...
Published 07/15/22
An invitation into a more complex and compassionate conversation about pregnancy – wanted and unwanted, viable and unviable, aborted and miscarried, carried to term and lost mid way – and the tremendous emotional charge and disenfranchised grief so many of us carry. We are ALL connected in this conversation and can begin tending to one another with more care, empathy and vision for a culture where we are all safer and more free. Thanks to our episode sponsors for being part of our...
Published 07/01/22
Erotic Pride is about coming home to our inherent dignity and worth as human erotic beings. Erotic Pride is for us ALL and is a powerful antidote to shame. On this podcast episode, Pleasure Mechanics Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose discuss how taking pride in your erotic life can be a portal to an embodied sense of dignity and belonging. Ready to come home to a community of erotic freedom fighters? Join us at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit Aug 4-7, 2022 in Alexandria,...
Published 06/25/22
Get discounts on pleasure tools and toys from our sponsors here We all have many sexual orientations – overlapping and dynamic expressions of who we are as erotic creatures, what kind of relationships we want to have and with whom, and what kind of sexual connection we want and how often! On this podcast episode, we explore the many vast spectrums of sexual orientation, identities and expressions. We invite you to explore where your assigned identities came from, what...
Published 06/17/22
Coming out is a process of allowing yourself to be seen more fully, and to experience more belonging and celebration for who you are as a unique erotic being. Coming out is for ALL of us – and is a process we can all engage with again and again, as an act of personal and political freedom. Thanks to our episode sponsors for being part of our global team of Pleasure Partners: * Check out the premium silicone lubricant from Uberlube.com and use the code PLEASURE for 10% off and...
Published 06/10/22
If you are concerned about the state of sexual freedom, reproductive rights, access to health care and wondering how you can still get horny when the world is on fire, you are not alone! Join us in conversation with the Woodhull Freedom Foundation about how we can all step up and take action to generate more freedom, pleasure and connection for us all. Then, come out for the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit! Immerse yourself in community and join us as we come together for three...
Published 06/02/22
Practicing non-judgment is at the core of mindfulness and our approach to Mindful Sex. Learning how to recognize and release judgment serves to bring us deeper into our present reality, align us with our values and create connection with others. But like so many essential skills, developing the attitude of non-judgment takes time and practice. Thanks to our episode sponsors for being part of our global team of Pleasure Partners: * Get professional support and care from...
Published 05/27/22
Join us in conversation with the ever wise somatic psychotherapist Dr. Holly Richmond, author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life. We all can practice reclaiming pleasure, in big and small ways, throughout our daily lives. In this interview, Dr. Holly Richmond guides us in understanding the ongoing process of reclaiming (or discovering for the first time!) our own authentic eroticism, agency and embodied joy....
Published 05/20/22
Mindful Sex invites us to practice paying attention, on purpose, with empathy, during states of high arousal. But “paying attention” isn’t always so easy, especially in the charged realm of sexuality. There is plenty to pay attention to during sexual encounters – how you feel, how it feels to be with your partner, on the arousal inside your body or the many points of physical connection with a partner. It can be overwhelming enough to know where to place attention during sex, plus...
Published 05/13/22
Think about the excitement and curiosity you brought to your first consensual sexual experiences – those first kisses, first times seeing people naked, first sexual encounters. The awe and wonder of these moments might be palpable in your memories.  Now think about seeing a long-term partner naked. Doesn’t quite have the same charge, right?  To maximize the experience of enjoying each sexual encounter, we can cultivate a Beginner’s Erotic Mind. This approach gives us access to...
Published 05/06/22
Discover how to use your hands, mouth, toys and full body to create dual zones of erotic stimulation to amp up the pleasure, erotic interest and arousal. Ready to master erotic touch? Join our Erotic Touch Mastery online course and let us guide you, stroke by stroke, in leveling up your sex life. Thanks to our episode sponsors for being part of our global team of Pleasure Partners: * Explore an audio library of immersive erotic soundscapes, explicit stories and more at...
Published 04/29/22
Discover the powerful pleasure potential of the perineum in this podcast episode, where Speaking of Sex hosts Chris and Charlotte Rose share all about the perineum, why it is so important in pelvic anatomy, and how to stimulate the perineum for more pleasure, arousal and relaxation. Thanks to our episode sponsors for being part of our global team of Pleasure Partners: * Visit LikeAKitten.com to curate your own box of new pleasure tools! Use the code PLEASURE for 15% off and...
Published 04/22/22