Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "Sauce,", unpack the complexities of casual yet ever-present sexual encounters and so much more! Enjoyy Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Casual...

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the social challenges of non-conformity head-on and so much more! Enjoy! Themes: Gender Identity, Labels, Queer Existence  Don’t forget to rate us and...

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth, the importance of safe and affirming spaces for all types of sexualities and much more. Enjoy! Themes: Mental Health, Therapy, Sexual...

What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between desire and vulnerability. Does love make bad sex feel better than it actually is? They explore it all in a heartfelt conversation about love,...

On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person views and expresses their sexual identity and much more. Enjoy! Themes: Labels, Sexual Identity, Japa/Relocation Don’t forget to rate us and...

In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert.  They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienced in Nigeria being a sex educator and much more! Enjoy! Themes: Sex Education, Women’s Health, Advocacy  Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay...

Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the industry, and the delicate dance of managing client emotions while baring it all. And yes, even with his clothes off, he's setting boundaries like...

On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spirituality , Polyamory, Eros Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial -...

On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love with her new partner. They also discuss misconceptions about sex and love within older couples and much more  Enjoyy Themes: Love, Relationships,...

Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means to them. Themes: Love, Valentine’s, Relationships Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod -...

On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyDon’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial - TikTok:...

On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial - TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Listen to a new...

On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamory, Sexual Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial -...

Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication and so much more! Themes: Non Exclusive Partnerships, Emotional Honesty, Intimacy Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with...

It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos!   Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Labels Enjoyy! Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram:...

On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial - TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Listen to a new episode here:...

On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial - TikTok:...

On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame. Enjoy! Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOS Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial - TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Listen to a new episode here:...

On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music. Dive in and enjoy! Themes: Sex In Media, Sex Playlists, Sensory Stimulation Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod -...

On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories. Enjoyyy!! Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, Pornography Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial - TikTok:...

As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more. Enjoyy! Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod -...

On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various nuances of masculinity and how heteronormative norms and behaviors sometimes spill into queer spaces. Enjoy! Themes Discussed: Queerness, Activism,...

On today’s episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication’ being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom? Enjoy! Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, Ghosting Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitter: @sospodofficial - TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See...

On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more! Themes Discussed: Adult Entertainment, Porn, Societal Norms  Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod -...